What Resilience Is and Isn’t

Luke Bryan Opens Up On Lainey Wilson’s 7 REJECTIONS On American Idol – YouTube

By Amanda Tubbs on February 19, 2024

Resilience happens out of necessity, not necessarily because someone has worked hard to achieve it. As a 2011 research article notes, there’s a dynamic nature to resilience across the lifespan.

“A key ingredient to resilience is recognizing that what you’ve been through is… significant, and recognizing the importance of seeing how it has impacted you and that you’re different than you were prior to the event,” says Kendra Kubala, PsyD, a psychologist working with trauma survivors in Pennsylvania and New York.

According to Kubala, resilience should be examined longitudinally (aka across time or across a chunk of someone’s life). If you’ve experienced trauma as a kid and then experience another traumatic event in adulthood from which you recover — either on your own or with the help of a mental health professional — that may be considered resilience.

You may have some degree of resilience if you exhibit any of the following behaviors:

  • You recognize the impermanence of difficulties.
  • You see setbacks as opportunities for growth.
  • You have tools to manage your stress and emotions.
  • You recognize that many things are out of your control.
  • You have a growth mindset versus a fixed mindset.

Outside factors such as social and community support may also play an important role in helping people develop or maintain resilience. Before Lainey Wilson was a household name, she was a young aspiring singer trying her luck in a reality singing competition.

Lainey Wilson is blazing a trail in country music and shows no signs of slowing down. She was the most nominated artist for the 2023 CMA Awards and took home the coveted title of Entertainer of the Year. In addition, she recently won her first Grammy Award and was named The Female Country Artist at the 2024 People’s Choice Awards.

However, the Louisiana native did not have an easy start in the industry. While co-hosting an episode of Country Countdown USA, Lainey Wilson revealed that she auditioned for American Idol seven times and never made it past the first round.  Additionally, she shared that she also tried her luck on The Voice, only to have the same disappointing result. Lainey Wilson performed on American Idol in a full-circle moment.

Despite the early rejection, Lainey Wilson kept her head down and continued to relentlessly pursue her musical dreams. Eventually, her hard work paid off when she was invited to be a performer on the Season 21 finale of American Idol. She reflected: “I finally made it on American Idol. I tried out 7 times. I took the long way around, but finally made it on American Idol.”

Jelly Roll – Save Me (Lyrics) with Lainey Wilson (youtube.com)

Wilson took the Idol stage not once, but two times during the live finale. First, to perform her widely popular duet “Jelly Roll – Save Me (Lyrics) with Lainey Wilson and second to perform her No. 1 hit “Heart Like A Truck” with contestants Marybeth Byrd, Warren & Lainey Wilson Heart Like A Truck | Full Performance American Idol 2023 Final (youtube.com)

Luke Bryan admits that American Idol does not always “get it right.”

Weeks after Lainey Wilson co-hosted Country Countdown USA, Weeks after Lainey Wilson co-hosted Country Countdown USA, Luke Bryan visited the very same radio show where he was shocked to learn about Wilson’s failed Idol attempts. Bryan, who has been a judge on the show for the last seven seasons, reacted:

“I didn’t know that, that was the first time I heard that, but I’ll go see my producers today and find out what happened… I’m glad she didn’t take the Idol letdown to heart. It also shows we don’t always get it right.” Lainey Wilson’s dedication to her craft and perseverance despite rejection is an inspiration and a reminder that dreams are worth chasing.

Take a look back at her 2023 CMA Entertainer of the Year acceptance speech below!

Lainey Wilson Wins the 2023 CMA Award for Entertainer of the Year – The CMA Awards (youtube.com)

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♫ Hang Tight Honey (iheart.com)

Lainey Denay Wilson (born May 19, 1992)[1] is an American country music singer-songwriter and actress. Wilson performed from an early age, before going to Nashville, Tennessee, to pursue a career as a country performer. In 2014, she released her first album on Cupit, followed by a second on Lone Chief in 2016. Wilson secured a publishing deal and later released an extended play (EP) in 2019, which included the song “Things a Man Oughta Know“. 

In 2020, it was issued as a single through the BBR Music Group and eventually reached number one on the American country songs chart. Wilson has received seven Country Music Association Awards, including winning their top honor Entertainer of the Year in 2023. She has also received a Grammy Award and six Academy of Country Music Awards.

Early life

Lainey Wilson was raised in Baskin, Louisiana, a town of 250 people. Her father, Brian, was a farmer while her mother, Michelle, was a schoolteacher. She also has a sister, Janna. She became interested in music at a young age.[2] Her family often listened to classic country music by Buck Owens and Glen Campbell. “Country music for me and my family, it was more than music. We lived the words to those songs,” she told The Advocate.[3]

At age nine, she attended a performance of the Grand Ole Opry and was drawn to the music. “I just remember looking up there, being like, ‘Man, I wanna do that’,” she recalled.[4] Wilson’s father taught her a couple of chords and she was soon writing songs by her preteen years.[2] In 2006, she released an extended play (EP) on Myspace titled Country Girls Rule.[1] In high school, Wilson took a job impersonating Hannah Montana. Often booking her own shows,[4] she performed as Hannah Montana at birthday parties, fairs, and festivals across Louisiana, Mississippi, and Arkansas, even once performing for child cancer patients at St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital.[2]

Career

2011–2018: early years in Nashville and independent releases

Wilson finished high school[2] and moved to Nashville, Tennessee in August 2011.[3] She first lived in a camper trailer outside of a recording studio in Nashville. The studio owner paid for Wilson’s water and electricity to help make ends meet.[5] In 2021, Wilson explained that her early years in Nashville were difficult: “It taught me that this thing was not going to be easy. It taught me perseverance.”[3] 

For several years, Wilson played a variety of small shows and worked on her songwriting.[2] In 2014, Wilson released a self-titled album on the Cupit label.[6] It was followed in 2016 by Tougher, on the Lone Chief label.[7] The project garnered an audience and made the Billboard Top Country Albums chart.[8] In 2018, she issued her second EP, a self-titled collection that was self-released. It led to her signing a publishing deal[2] with Sony/ATV in 2018. The same year, she also signed a management deal.[9]

2019–present: breakout success with “Things a Man Oughta Know”

In 2018, Wilson signed a major-label recording contract with the BBR Music Group.[10] Her first major-label release was her third EP Redneck Hollywood (2019). Her debut major label single was also released in 2019: “Dirty Looks”.[11] Off the Record UK praised the EP, highlighting Wilson’s songwriting and the production from producer Jay Joyce. The publication concluded by saying, “The EP is raw and real, pushing the country music genre wider than ever and bringing it back to the traditional while still reinventing it to its modern surroundings.”[12] Wilson then received attention from Country Music Television, who included her in their “Listen Up” Class of 2019[13] and on their “2019 CMT Next Women of Country” tour.[14] She also toured with Morgan Wallen in 2019.[11] During this same period, several of her songs were featured in the Paramount Network show Yellowstone.[15]

In August 2020, the BBR label issued Wilson’s next single to radio: “Things a Man Oughta Know“.[16] The track gained heavy media attention from sites like YoutubeApple Music,[17] iHeartRadio,[18] Spotify,[19] and Pandora.[20] By 2021, “Things a Man Oughta Know” became her breakout single, reaching number one on Billboard Country Airplay and number three on Hot Country Songs.[21] It was included on her third studio album Sayin’ What I’m Thinkin’ (2021). 

The disc was her first full-length album issued on BBR and contained 12 tracks.[22] It was her second to reach the Billboard country albums chart, peaking at number 40.[8] The disc received positive reviews. “Beyond writing and recording songs that satisfy country music fans, she succeeds at introducing her whole self through the music,” concluded Taste of Countrys Billy Dukes.[23] Entertainment Focus commented, “The rising star knocks it out of the park with her new album.”[24]

Wilson appeared as a supporting act on Jason Aldean‘s “Back in the Saddle Tour” in 2021.[25] The same year, Wilson collaborated with Cole Swindell on his single “Never Say Never“.[26] The duet was released as the second single from Swindell’s fourth studio album Stereotype, and became Wilson’s second single to top the Billboard country chart.[27] It was followed by her 2022 solo single titled “Heart Like a Truck“, then the album Bell Bottom Country.[28] 

Wilson received a leading six nominations at the 56th Annual Country Music Association Awards, becoming the fourth artist to receive six or more nominations as a first-time nominee.[29] Wilson also joined the cast of Yellowstone in 2022, with some of her songs also being featured in the series.[30] She was a co-writer on the 2023 single “Chasing Tornadoes” by fellow country artist MacKenzie Porter.[31]

Wilson received a leading nine nominations at the 57th Annual Country Music Association Awards in 2023, winning five including the top honor Entertainer of the Year. She was the first woman to win Entertainer of the Year since Taylor Swift in 2009.

On May 9, 2024, Wilson announced that her fifth album Whirlwind will be released on August 23, 2024.[32] “Hang Tight Honey” was released as its lead single to country radio on May 20, 2024.[33]

Influences

Wilson’s musical style is rooted in country music, but also incorporates elements of popsouthern rock, contemporary country and classic country.[2][34] In describing her style, AllMusic‘s Mark Deming commented, “Wilson’s voice is clear and strong, with an unapologetic Southern accent, and her songs are tough but heartfelt contemporary country with an edge that has its roots in vintage Southern rock and classic rock, as well as a dash of modern-day pop.”[2] 

Lainey Wilson Performs “Hold My Halo” | CMT Campfire Sessions (youtube.com)

Lainey Wilson: Bell Bottom Country | movie | 2024 | Official Trailer | Watch (msn.com)

Lainey Wilson: Bell Bottom Country | movie | 2024 – Search (bing.com)

In describing her own musical style, Wilson characterized it as “bell-bottom country”, which Taste of Country called “a cross between easy listening and hard truths.”[4] Wilson has been heavily influenced by Dolly Parton, paying tribute to her in the self-composed track “WWDD” (What Would Dolly Do).[35] She also credits Lee Ann Womack as an influence on her career and music.[36]

Personal life

In 2022, Wilson’s father, Brian Wilson, experienced severe health issues including a stroke and a fungal infection that resulted in the removal of his left eye. This all occurred while she was filming her first season on Yellowstone. Wanting to be closer to him, she considered quitting the show. However, her father encouraged her to continue filming regardless of his health outlook. He eventually recovered and was seen accompanying her on the red carpet at the 56th CMA Awards.[37][38][39]

In late 2022, Wilson became the subject of a viral trend that occurred on social media, predominantly on TikTok. A video of her performing at a concert spread very quickly on the platform. As a result of the angle of the camera and the leopard print pants Wilson was wearing, users felt the video was very flattering to the size and shape of her buttocks. The resulting trend saw users posting additional videos, pictures, and comments expressing admiration for Wilson’s figure. For her part, Lainey acknowledged the trend and has largely responded to it with good humor. She made several jokes about it and also expressed hope that many people who had only heard of her because of the posts would be inspired to listen to her music and become fans.[40][41]

In May 2023, Wilson was confirmed to be in a relationship with ex-NFL quarterback Devlin “Duck” Hodges.[42] Wilson later revealed in an interview with The Bobby Bones Show that she and Hodges had been dating for over two years prior to the public revelation.[43] Source~Wikipedia

Lainey Wilson 2024 MIX ~ Top 10 Best Songs ~ Greatest Hits ~ Full Album (youtube.com)

Lainey Wilson – Heart Like A Truck (sped up) (youtube.com)

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