But as people watched in disbelief as office supplies, twisted metal and concrete fell from the skies, they realised that some people had survived.
New Yorkers 400 miles below photographed and filmed a woman, believed to be Edna, standing at the edge of the flaming hole left by the jet and waving through it.
The Marsh & McLennan’s offices were on the 93rd floor, and Edna gestured for help for about 20 minutes, near another man doing the same.
In the wake of the disaster, William wandered around Manhattan carrying a photograph of his wife, asking panicked office workers and emergency responders if they’d seen her.
He tried St Vincent’s, a nearby hospital, but staff had no record of her. At the disaster site, he was turned away.
William told The Independent at the time: ‘They said we’d interfere. We can’t just be in the way.’
By September 12, he was at the 69th Regiment Armory on Lexington Avenue asking how to file a missing person’s report.
Edna’s body was never recovered, although William ‘tentatively identified’ her as the woman waving in video footage, according to a memorial page.
Edna is believed to have been the ‘waving woman’ (Picture: AFP)
Edna met her future husband in 1987. She was chatting with her friend at her home in Upper Manhattan when William walked into the kitchen.
He recalled: ‘I was charming at that time; I wore cashmere.’
The couple managed a flower shop in Harlem that they jointly owned, Sweet William’s Florist, while living in East Elmhurst, Queens.
For a spell, they were briefly homeless, and Edna supported William as he recovered from alcoholism, her obituary states. He stayed sober thanks to her support.
William said: ‘Fourteen years with her, that was my life, my world. I knew when I went home I was in the best of hands, loved, cared for.’
9/11: 25 years later
It has been 25 years since the horrific 9/11 attacks that brought down the Twin Towers in New York City, claiming the lives of thousands.
Follow Metro’s coverage of the 25th anniversary of 9/11 as we look back on the tragic attack, those who died, survived, and those who helped:
People with Alzheimer’s disease might express a wish to go home even if they are already there. This longing often stems from feelings of insecurity, anxiety, or depression.
Alzheimer’s disease initially affects short-term memory. “Home,” then, could be a reference to long-term memories of times and places where the person felt secure. They could be thinking of a childhood home that no longer exists.
“Home” might also be a longing for something familiar. Memory loss can make people with Alzheimer’s feel like nothing is familiar anymore. For this reason, they may connect “home” with a sense of familiarity and belonging.1 They may long for the intimacy of family life.
“Home” in this context probably doesn’t mean the place where the person currently lives, or lived prior to moving to a care facility. Instead, it may mean a place in the past where they felt secure and happy.
This is likely what your loved one is expressing. “Home” may be a desire to reconnect with childhood. For many people, that is the time of life that provided the most security, intimacy, and comfort.
If They Are Home
If the person is residing in their home rather than a nursing home or assisted living facility and asks to go home, how can you respond? Explain and reassure them that they are at home. This may help them feel secure.
Reminiscing Can Provide Comfort
The next time your loved one talks about going “home,” remember that it may be a reference to the past. Try to respond with some questions of your own. For example, you can ask about your loved one’s childhood memories, or you can look at old family photographs together. Reminiscing about childhood and the home where the person grew up can be comforting.
You might also try using validation therapy. With this approach, you validate your loved one’s experiences and emotions by asking questions that help them process their feelings. This can help your loved one work through the loss of their sense of comfort.2 Some questions could include:
What was your childhood house like?
Do you miss it?
What was the best thing about your family?
What was your favorite home-cooked food?
How did the kitchen smell?
Did you share a bedroom with your siblings?
Try echoing your loved one’s feelings. For example, you could say, “You must wish you could be at home right now.” This can help the person feel like you understand what they’re feeling. That can be very comforting.
Why People With Dementia Say They “Want to Go Home”
When someone with dementia says, “I want to go home,” it’s usually not about the physical address they live at today. Instead, “home” often represents a time and place in the past when they felt safe, capable, and comfortablehelpdementia.com+1.
The Brain and Memory Changes
Dementia affects the brain’s memory centers, especially the hippocampus, which makes it harder to hold onto recent memories while long-term memories remain intacthelpdementia.com+1. This can cause a person to:
Forget they are in their current home or even in a care facility.
Recall a specific earlier period in life — such as their childhood home or the house where they raised their family — as “home” helpdementia.com+1.
Feel that the present environment is unfamiliar, unsafe, or “not right” carepatrol.com+1.
Emotional and Sensory Factors
For many, “home” is tied to emotional anchors — places linked to warmth, routine, and independence helpdementia.com+1. The desire can also be triggered by:
“I miss a time when life felt simpler and more secure.”helpdementia.com+1
“I want something familiar and comforting.”Elder Guru+1
How to Respond
Experts recommend:
Validate the feeling — e.g., “You miss home. Tell me what you loved about it” www.elderloveusa.org.
Avoid arguing about location — focus on comfort and connection www.elderloveusa.org.
Use reminiscence — share old photos, talk about childhood memories Verywell Health.
Reassure with simple facts — “We are staying here tonight. I will make some tea” www.elderloveusa.org.
Check for unmet needs — comfort, routine, or sensory triggers www.elderloveusa.org.
In short: They “want to go home” because their brain is searching for a place and time when they felt safe and whole — not necessarily the physical house they live in now helpdementia.com+2. Understanding this helps caregivers respond with empathy rather than correction, reducing distress and building trust.
Addressing “I Want to Go Home” from Older Loved Ones with Dementia
While the National Center for Assisted Living estimates that the one million Americans living in a senior living community will double by the year 2030, placing a parent in assisted living is a tough decision. Many families grapple with this choice, as they want the best care for their loved ones.
Assisted living communities provide seniors with the help they need with daily activities, such as bathing, getting dressed, meals, and medications.
Unfortunately, even in the top assisted living facilities, you’re likely to hear an older adult, especially with dementia, say, “I want to go home.”
Hearing this can be very hard for family caregivers, but it’s important to get to the bottom of what “home” means, how you can help your loved one, and what to do next.
Handling Guilt when Older Adults with Dementia Say “I Want to Go Home”
Hearing your loved ones say that they want to go home can be heartbreaking. Even when you know that an assisted living community is the best solution for your loved one, hearing them ask to go home often evokes feelings of guilt.
This seemingly small sentiment can make you question the quality of the facility and the choices you are making to help your seniors. Hearing your parents or spouse ask to go home often unveils feelings we may not realize we had. We may become frustrated, especially with a dementia patient or a family member with Alzheimer’s disease. It’s easy to feel helpless, and no matter what you do it does not seem like the best option.
To best help older adults when they say, “I want to go home,” we must be able to see past our initial feelings of frustration, desperation, and guilt. Rather than letting your emotions rule your response, take a step back and assess the various reasons people say they want to go home when they are in a seemingly high-quality assisted living environment.
What Does “Home” Mean?
When we hear our loved ones say they want to go “home,” we tend to think of our version of home. Based on our own concerns and feelings of guilt, we often interpret this to mean home as a place. However, there are many other ways that older people, especially those suffering from dementia, can perceive “home.”
Saying, “I want to go home,” may be another way of saying, “I don’t feel good here.” Teepa Snow breaks down the different meanings of “home” in her podcast Dementia Care Partner Talk Show Ep. 86 “I Want to Go Home!” She explains that when seniors say this, they are telling you something about their current situation that is not familiar, friendly, functional, or forgiving. It may not be a good sensory match, or something is not comfortable. What they are really saying is that they are looking for a place of comfort.
When you understand how dementia affects the brain, begging for home makes sense. Dementia first affects the hippocampus or the brain’s memory center. As the hippocampus sustains damage, people struggle to remember the timeline of their life. Where they are now versus where they are supposed to be is fuzzy. They may not always understand how they got somewhere or the landmarks around them.
Rather than interpreting “I want to go home” as meaning a physical place, interpret it as a way of asking for some important needs. It could simply mean that the person is hungry, thirsty, or tired. They may need something that they do not know how to get where they are. Asking for “home” is a way of asking for needs to be met.
For some, “home” might even signify a yearning for childhood memories, a time when they felt safe and secure. Understanding these deeper meanings can help dementia caregivers provide appropriate comfort and reassurance.
How to Respond
Hearing the cry for home, especially repeatedly, can be upsetting, annoying, and heartbreaking all at the same time. Understandably, family caregivers and even the trained nursing staff may sometimes respond based on their emotions.
However, a “you are home” or “this is your home now” will not help you or your senior. Rather than responding based on emotion or out of exasperation, try to reveal the cause of the sentiment.
Start with, “Do you need to do something at home or do you just want to be there?” The answer can reveal a lot. If they mention a specific thing they want to do there, you may be able to help them meet that need. Maybe they will tell you they need to make dinner there or they have to use the bathroom. Based on their response, you can help them find a solution.
On the other hand, if the person says they just want to be home, they have an emotional need. Maybe it is a person or a sensory detail. For example, if the older adult responds with “It’s too loud here, so I want to go home,” you can help them find a quieter area. Responding in a relaxed manner is crucial in these situations.
Another idea is to redirect. Rather than just saying no or telling them they are home, try “let’s head out.” This gives the brain new stimulation it may crave. If possible, take them for a supervised walk outside or a drive around the neighborhood.
Always bring a phone and a map just in case you need it. Simply heading out for a little bit and changing up the environment can make a huge difference.
Also, engaging the person in pleasant and distracting activities, such as puzzles, music, or storytelling, can also help shift their focus away from their distress and toward something more enjoyable.
Finding New Friends
Home is also about familiar people who love you. Helping the older adult meet new people at their new home so that they can start to be surrounded by people will go a long way toward making them feel welcome and included.
For individuals in a nursing home, building connections with staff and other residents can significantly improve their emotional well-being.
How Photos and Music Can Help Adults with Dementia Who Want to Go Home
If your loved one is wanting to go home, one way to help bring comfort is to bring in old framed photos, photo albums, or even create a digital photo frame loaded with lots of family photos so they are surrounded by familiar faces. And music can be a powerfully calming force, which draws up familiarity and comfort.
No matter what, monitor your tone. Take a deep breath and remain calm. If you need to, take a break in a safe space. How you speak to the person is just as important as what you say.
Responding When a Person With Dementia Wants to Go Home
People with Alzheimer’s might say they want to go home because they feel insecure and want something familiar.
Talk about the person’s childhood memories or look at old pictures to provide comfort.
Validate their feelings by acknowledging their wish to go home.
When someone with dementia says they want to go home, it often reflects a need for comfort and familiarity. You can support them by responding with empathy and taking steps to ease their anxiety.
They say “I want to go home” in dementia not because they literally mean a physical house, and not because it automatically means end‑stage. It’s a symbolic cry for safety, familiarity, and relief from overwhelm.
Here’s the clear takeaway: Wanting to “go home” can happen inanystage of dementia, but the meaning behind it deepens as the disease progresses.
What “home” actually means in dementia
When someone with dementia says they want to go home, they’re usually expressing:
A need for comfort — the nervous system is distressed.
A search for identity — “home” is where they remember who they were.
A desire for safety — they feel lost, confused, or threatened.
A longing for the past — often childhood or early adulthood.
It’s rarely about a physical address. It’s about returning to a time when life made sense.
This is one of the most universal emotional expressions in dementia.
Why it happens
Memory time-travel — the brain may be living in a different decade.
Nearly two decades after the 9/11 attacks, “The Falling Man” by Richard Drew remains one of the most unforgettable images from the tragedy. There were many scenes of chaos, destruction, and panic captured during the 9/11 attacks, but one of the most haunting images is actually a quiet one.
When Richard Drew pointed his camera up to one of the towers, among the horrors he captured were people falling from it. However, he didn’t know until later that one of the frames would turn out to become a symbol of the tragedy of every life lost that day.
TIME has included Richard Drew’s now iconic photograph in their selection of 100 most influential photographs of all time. In the 2016 video below by TIME, the Associated Press photographer recalls the harrowing events that surrounded the taking of the now-iconic photo.
When Drew got to the scene, the first thing he saw was the two towers on fire and covered in smoke. He proceeded to take his photos of the people on the streets and the burning building when he saw the trapped people falling down from it. He took shot after shot of them as they came down, one of them ended up to be the photo that would later come to be known as “The Falling Man.”
“It’s a very quiet photograph. It’s not like a lot of other violent photographs from other disasters,” he said of his poignant capture. “There’s no blood, there’s no guts, nobody getting shot. But, people react to it in a way that they feel they can relate to this photograph.”
The power of this photograph, as Drew also noted, lies in viewers being able to feel that if they were in the same situation, they might have made the same choice that the man in the photo made. It’s also probably one of the few photos that show someone dying that day — and a gripping reminder of the heartbreaking choices thrust upon countless innocent lives like the unidentified man in the photo.
Therefore, it’s not surprising that the photo, despite being disturbing to some, made rounds in different publications, including Esquire, where the photo earned its now-famous title.
THE identity of the man captured falling from the World Trade Center on 9/11 remained one of the tragedy’s most haunting mysteries for years. But a tiny clue spotted during the hunt to identify him would eventually point investigators towards one man.
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The infamous falling man picture, thought to be Jonathan Briley.
A distinctive orange T-shirt worn beneath his clothes helped link the mysterious figure to World Trade Center worker Jonathan Briley. The crucial detail emerged from another photograph taken by Richard Drew moments apart, which showed the man’s outer shirt blowing open to reveal the bright orange top underneath.
Briley, 43, was a sound engineer at Windows on the World restaurant on the 106th and 107th floors of the North Tower.
He is now believed to be the most likely identity of the man immortalized in Drew’s devastating image.
Esquire journalist Tom Junod later investigated the identity of the so-called “Falling Man” and concluded Briley was most likely the person pictured after speaking to Drew and examining the evidence.
Now, 25 years after the terror attacks, Briley’s sister Gwen Briley-Strand, 72, has opened up about the agonizing mystery surrounding the photograph.
She admitted the figure bore a striking resemblance to her brother.
“Truth be told, it did look like him,” she said. But Gwen said her family had initially been “very hurt” when Jonathan was suspected to be the man pictured – and she has never fixated on whether it really was him.
She said: “The photograph brought so much pain to so many people when they were trying to figure out who this person was. I remember hearing about a family who were deeply religious and, with Catholicism, this man that jumped, that’s suicide and that’s the unforgivable sin.”
But Gwen rejected the idea that those who fell or jumped from the burning towers should be judged for their final moments. “I don’t believe in an unforgivable sin. God is too benevolent. He’s too wonderful. I think the only unforgivable sin is not to believe in Him,” she said.
He was one of 2,977 people killed by al-Qaeda terrorists on 9/11Credit: AP
A man standing in the rubble, and calling out asking if anyone needs help, after the collapse of the first World Trade Center Tower on September 11, 2001, in New York City Credit: AFP
“I believe that all those individuals that jumped were caught. Their spirits were caught.”
For years, the identity of the Falling Man remained a mystery.
Instead, the figure came to represent those who died that day whose final moments were never known.
Gwen said she no longer looks at the photograph.
Instead, she holds onto memories of one final trip with Jonathan just days before his death.
He made a last-minute decision to join Gwen and her husband on a holiday to Florida the week before the attacks – something she now describes as “a gift of God.”
She said: “We were right there on the ocean and we would get up and have Kahlua and coffee and watch the sunrise. It was really special because he decided to join us at the last minute.”
A quarter of a century later, Gwen still watches anniversary coverage of the attacks every year.
She said: “There are times when it feels like 25 years but, then again, there are times when it feels like yesterday.”
But for Gwen, definitively proving whether her brother was the Falling Man ultimately does not matter.
Instead, she believes “he was a representative of all of those almost 3,000 people that had to go through that horrific day of September 11.”
Drew’s haunting photograph has since become one of the most recognisable images of the attacks.
After being implored by Hernandez’s widow to “clear [her] husband’s name”, Junod began writing an article about the photograph.[20] His piece, “The Falling Man”, was published in the September 2003 issue of Esquire magazine. It was adapted into a documentary film by the same name. The article gave the possible identity of the falling man as Jonathan Briley, a 43-year-old sound engineer who worked at Windows on the World. Briley had asthma and would have known he was in danger when smoke began to pour into the restaurant.[9]
He was initially identified by his brother, Timothy.[9]Michael Lomonaco, the restaurant’s executive chef, also suggested that the man was Briley based on his body type and clothes.[22] In one of the photos, the Falling Man’s shirt or white jacket was blown open and up, revealing an orange t-shirt similar to one shirt that Briley often wore.[23]
Briley’s remains were recovered the day after 9/11, though the collapse of the towers damaged the clothes he wore, making them unrecognizable except the black shoes, which resembled those from the photo.[9] Jonathan Briley was brother to Alex Briley, a member of the band Village People.
Other uses
9/11: The Falling Man is a 2006 documentary film about the photo. It was made by American filmmaker Henry Singer and filmed by Richard Numeroff, a New York-based director of photography. The film is loosely based on Junod’s Esquire story. It also drew its material from photographer Lyle Owerko‘s pictures of falling people. It debuted on March 16, 2006, on the British television network Channel 4, later made its North American premiere on Canada‘s CBC Newsworld on September 6, 2006, and has been broadcast in more than 30 countries. The U.S. premiere was September 10, 2007, on the Discovery Times Channel.[citation needed]
The novel Falling Man, by Don DeLillo, is about the September 11 attacks. The “falling man” in the novel is a performance artist recreating the events of the photograph.[24] DeLillo says he was unfamiliar with the title of the picture when he named his book. The artist straps himself into a harness and jumps from an elevated structure in a high visibility area (such as a highway overpass), hanging in the pose of The Falling Man.
In July 2022, GameStop caused controversy by allowing a non-fungible token titled Falling Man to be listed on their newly-launched NFT platform. The digital image depicted an astronaut falling in a pose and background replicating Drew’s photograph. The seller’s description read, “This one probably fell from the MIR station“, referencing the 1997 crash of Spektr. The NFT was later delisted from the platform.[25][26][27]
New York Mayor Zohran Mamdani has announced the release of tens of thousands of documents showing the city did not disclose all it knew about air toxicity after 9/11.
The release comes ahead of the 25th anniversary of the September 11, 2001, attacks that killed 2,977 people in the United States, mostly in the collapse of the Twin Towers in New York.
In the years since, more than 9,400 have died from illnesses linked to their exposure to the area, according to a federal medical monitoring program.
“These are documents that show what the city knew about the toxic air around Ground Zero, when they knew it, and how they acted to limit liability,” the mayor told a news conference following the online release of 170,000 pages of documents on health concerns, air quality and the city’s response to the attacks.
The release is part of an agreement with 9/11 Health Watch, a victims’ advocacy group that had taken legal action to compel the city to make the documents public.
“For 25 years, four different Mayoral administrations kept from the public, the US Congress, and the City Council documents showing what the City actually knew about the danger of the toxic chemicals in Lower Manhattan and Western Brooklyn after the World Trade Center collapse, even as City officials continued messaging to the public that the air was ‘safe and acceptable’,” the group’s director Benjamin Chevat said in a statement.
After the initial dust cloud that followed the collapse of the World Trade Center, months of pollution and lingering dust ensued, causing cancers that thousands of New Yorkers still suffer today.
When asked about the names of officials who had withheld information from the public, Mamdani said, “this goes across a multitude of those that New Yorkers have trusted.”
“People got sick because the leaders they trusted lied and told them they were safe to breathe in toxic air.”
An ambulance, covered with debris, is on fire after the collapse of the first World Trade Center Tower on 11 September 2001 in New York.
AFP / Doug Kanter
Roughly 173,000 documents released Tuesday, and additional ones which will be published online in waves over the next 12 months, could implicate two former New York mayors.
They are Rudy Giuliani, in office at the time of the attacks, and then Michael Bloomberg, mayor from January 2002 to December 2013.
Some concern discussions Giuliani’s administration had at the time about its legal liability and health risks, New York City’s chief counsel Steven Banks said Tuesday.
Giuliani’s spokesman did not return a request for comment.
Another document highlights information provided by Congressman Jerry Nadler during Bloomberg’s tenure regarding concerns from residents of Lower Manhattan about the quality of the air they were breathing.
Bloomberg’s team declined to comment.
On September 11, 2001, hijackers seized control of two planes that struck the two World Trade Center towers. A third hijacked jet smashed into the Pentagon, and a fourth, which seemed to be headed for the Capitol or the White House, crashed in woodland near Shanksville, Pennsylvania, after passengers fought back and seized control.
Flashback: Trump Interviewed On September 11, 2001, Tours Damage 2 Days Later Posted By Ian Schwartz On Date September 11, 2017
Donald Trump Calls Into WWOR/UPN 9 News on 9/11 Donald Trump said that from his office he witnessed a jetliner crashing into the World Trade Center on the morning of September 11, 2001. He spoke to WWOR/UPN 9 News via phone to describe what he saw.
Trump talked about the building structure, what should be the future of the WTC land plot and what, as president, he would do in response. Trump considered running for president in 1999.
“This country is different today and it’s going to be different than it ever was for many years to come,” Trump said.
Trump toured the damage two days after the terror attack: Donald Trump interview 2 days after 9/11 at ground zero “I cannot believe the sight of Lower Manhattan without the World Trade Center and therefore we have to rebuild. Not necessarily in that form, but we have to rebuild at least as good and maybe better,” Trump said in an interview with NBC News on September 13, 2001.
1925 portrait of 18 year old Maria Branyas. Credit: Wikimedia Commons
What Scientists Found Inside a 117-Year-Old Woman Reveals New Clues to Long Life
The findings, published in Cell Reports Medicine, suggest that extreme longevity arises from the interplay between genetic and environmental factors, offering insights into the mechanisms of healthy aging.
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Born in 1907, M116 was the world’s oldest verified living person until her death in 2024 at 117 years and 168 days. An analysis of M116’s biology now reveals that her record-breaking longevity was due to a combination of protective genetics, a healthy gut microbiota, efficient metabolism, and low inflammation.
“In Catalonia, the historic nation where M116 lived, the life expectancy for women is 86 years, so she exceeded the average by more than 30 years,” the authors say. Though more people now live past 100, reaching beyond 110 is still extremely rare, and scientists don’t know why people such as M116 achieve such extraordinary longevity.
To uncover some clues, Eloy Santos-Pujol at the Central University of Catalonia in Barcelona, Spain, and his colleagues examined M116’s blood, DNA, metabolism, immune system, microbiota, and epigenetic marks—chemical tags on the DNA that regulate gene expression.
Protective biology
M116’s chromosomes looked normal but her telomeres—the protective caps on DNA that shorten with age—were unusually short. Her genome contained some rare genetic variants that might explain her longevity. These were linked to healthy immune responses, heart function and brain protection.
M116’s mitochondria—the cell’s powerhouses—worked better than those in younger women, and her immune system showed unique characteristics that promoted low inflammation levels. She also had one of the healthiest cholesterol profiles ever recorded, the researchers found.
Although she had some of the typical age-related changes, her cells showed protective epigenetic marks at certain DNA regions, which may have helped prevent disease.
M116’s microbiota was unusually diverse and rich in Bifidobacterium—a beneficial gut microbe that usually declines with age. Bifidobacterium has been shown to help fight inflammation and support healthy fats. At the same time, she had few harmful bacteria linked to frailty and inflammation.
The abundance of Bifidobacterium may explain M116’s excellent cholesterol profile and low inflammation levels, the researchers say. Her healthy microbiota, they add, may have been boosted by a Mediterranean diet and daily yogurt, which encourage Bifidobacterium to grow.
“The picture that emerges from our study, although derived only from this one exceptional individual, shows that extremely advanced age and poor health are not intrinsically linked and that both processes can be distinguished and dissected at the molecular level.”
What is already known
Born in 1907, M116 was the world’s oldest verified living person until her death in 2024 at 117 years and 168 days. Though more people now live past 100, reaching beyond 110 is still extremely rare, and scientists don’t know why people such as M116 achieve such extraordinary longevity.
What this research adds
Researchers examined M116’s blood, DNA, metabolism, immune system, microbiota, and epigenetics. They found protective genetic variants, strong mitochondrial and immune function, efficient cholesterol and fat metabolism, and very low inflammation. Her gut microbiota was unusually diverse and rich in Bifidobacterium—a beneficial gut microbe that usually declines with age.
Conclusions
The findings indicate that M116 long life came from a combination of protective genetics, a healthy gut microbiota, efficient metabolism, and low inflammation. They also suggest that extreme longevity arises from the interplay between genetic and environmental factors, offering insights into the mechanisms of healthy aging.
A remarkable new study of the world’s oldest verified living person reveals a surprising picture of extreme longevity.
Maria Branyas Morera was an American-born Spanish supercentenarian and the world’s oldest verified living person from January 17, 2023, until her death on August 19, 2024, at 117 years and 168 days.
Born in San Francisco on Mar 4. 1907 to Catalan parents, she moved to Spain in 1915, became a nurse during the Spanish Civil War, and had three children. She recovered from COVID-19 at 113, was the oldest Spaniard ever, and was studied for her exceptional health, strong immunity, and youthful microbiome.
Maria Branyas lived through two world wars, the 1918 flu pandemic, the Spanish Civil War, and COVID-19. When she died in 2024 at age 117 years and 168 days, she was the oldest verified living person in the world. Now, scientists have examined her biology in unusual detail, and the results suggest that extreme aging and poor health are not always inseparable.
A team led by Dr. Manel Esteller, head of the Cancer Epigenetics Group at the Josep Carreras Leukemia Research Institute, has published the final peer-reviewed results from what researchers describe as the most comprehensive study ever performed on a supercentenarian. Using minimally invasive samples from blood, saliva, urine, and stool, the team analyzed Branyas’s genome, proteome, epigenome, metabolome, transcriptome, and microbiome.
The study, published in Cell Reports Medicine, was coordinated by Esteller and led by Eloy Santos. Its key finding is not that Branyas avoided aging. Instead, her biology showed two opposing patterns at once. As Esteller put it, she displayed a “fascinating duality: the simultaneous presence of signals of extreme aging and of healthy longevity.”
Clear Signs of Advanced Aging
The signs of advanced age were unmistakable. Branyas had very short telomeres (the protective caps at the ends of chromosomes), an immune system with pro-inflammatory features, an aged population of B lymphocytes, and clonal hematopoiesis, an age-related condition in which blood stem cells acquire mutations. These changes are often associated with higher risks of leukemia, myelodysplastic syndromes, cardiovascular disease, and other serious conditions. New research links social behavior shifts to health and work
Maria Branyas, the longest-lived person ever recorded, together with Dr Manel Esteller, from the Josep Carreras Leukaemia Research Institute Credit: Josep Carreras Leukaemia Research Institute
Yet Branyas did not develop cancer, dementia, or major cardiovascular disease. That contrast may be the study’s most important message: aging and disease can sometimes be separated at the molecular level.
Protective Biological Features
Alongside the markers of aging, Branyas exhibited several traits associated with resilience and healthy longevity.
The researchers found rare genetic variants linked to immune fitness, brain health, heart protection, and mitochondrial function. Her blood profile suggested unusually efficient lipid metabolism, with very low VLDL cholesterol and triglycerides and high HDL cholesterol, often called “good” cholesterol. She also had exceptionally low inflammation, a key factor because chronic inflammation is widely viewed as a driver of age-related disease.
Branyas’s gut microbiome also stood out.
Branyas had high levels of beneficial Bifidobacterium, bacteria associated with anti-inflammatory effects and healthy metabolism. This is notable because these bacteria usually decline with age, although they have also been found at higher levels in some centenarians and supercentenarians.
The researchers noted that Branyas ate about three yogurts per day during the last 20 years of her life, a habit that may have helped support her gut microbiome, although the study cannot prove cause and effect.
Younger Than Expected at the Molecular Level
Perhaps the most surprising result came from her epigenome, the chemical layer that helps regulate gene activity. Epigenetic clocks use DNA methylation patterns to estimate biological age, which can differ from chronological age. Across multiple tissues and several clock methods, Branyas’s biological age appeared younger than her actual age. One analysis found a gap of more than 23 years.
As the authors write, the findings suggest that one reason she reached such an extreme age was that her cells “felt” or “behaved” as younger cells.
The researchers caution that one person’s biology cannot provide a universal formula for living past 110. Extreme longevity likely depends on a rare mix of genetics, lifestyle, environment, and chance.
Still, Branyas provides an unusually clear example of a body that carried the marks of extreme aging while avoiding many of aging’s most damaging consequences. The authors conclude: “These findings provide a fresh look at human aging biology, suggesting biomarkers for healthy aging, and potential strategies to increase life expectancy.”
Reference: “The multi omics blueprint of the individual with the most extreme lifespan” – Search Videos by Eloy Santos-Pujol, Aleix Noguera-Castells, Marta Casado-Pelaez, Carlos A. García-Prieto, Claudia Vasallo, Ignacio Campillo-Marcos, Carlos Quero-Dotor, Eva Crespo-García, Alberto Bueno-Costa, Fernando Setién, Gerardo Ferrer, Veronica Davalos, Elisabetta Mereu, Raquel Pluvinet, Carles Arribas, Carolina de la Torre, Francisco Villavicencio, Lauro Sumoy, Isabel Granada, Natalie S. Coles, Pamela Acha, Francesc Solé, Mar Mallo, Caterina Mata, Sara Peregrina, Toni Gabaldón, Marc Llirós, Meritxell Pujolassos, Robert Carreras-Torres, Aleix Lluansí, Librado Jesús García-Gil, Xavier Aldeguer, Sara Samino, Pol Torné, Josep Ribalta, Montse Guardiola, Núria Amigó, Oscar Yanes, Paula Martínez, Raúl Sánchez-Vázquez, Maria A. Blasco, Jose Oviedo, Bernardo Lemos, Julia Rius-Bonet, Marta Torrubiano, Marta Massip-Salcedo, Kamal A. Khidir, Thong Huy Cao, Paulene A. Quinn, Donald J.L. Jones, Salvador Macip, Eva Brigos-Barril, Mauricio Moldes, Fabio Barteri, Gerard Muntané, Hafid Laayouni, Arcadi Navarro and Manel Esteller, 24 September 2025, Cell Reports Medicine. DOI: 10.1016/j.xcrm.2025.102368
A dementia-affected brain shows significant shrinkage, widened grooves, and abnormal protein deposits, while a normal brain maintains its structure and connectivity despite minor age-related changes.
Structural Differences
A brain affected by dementia, such as Alzheimer’s disease, undergoes widespread atrophy, particularly in the hippocampus, which is critical for memory formation, and in the cortical regions responsible for higher cognitive functions Medical News Today+2.
MRI scans reveal larger sulci (grooves), expanded ventricles, and reduced overall brain volume compared to a healthy brain optoceutics.com.
In contrast, a normal aging brain experiences modest volume loss, mainly in the prefrontal cortex and hippocampus, but the overall architecture remains intact, and neurons largely stay connected neurolaunch.com+1.
Chemical and Cellular Changes
Dementia brains accumulate amyloid plaques and tau tangles, which disrupt neuron function and communication U.S. News & World Report+1.
These abnormal protein deposits are largely absent in healthy brains, although minor amounts may appear with age U.S. News & World Report.
Neuronal death in dementia leads to loss of synaptic connections, impairing memory, reasoning, and language, whereas normal aging slows processing but preserves most neural networks neurolaunch.com.
Functional Impacts
The structural and chemical changes in dementia result in memory loss, impaired reasoning, language difficulties, personality changes, and loss of daily functioningneurolaunch.com+1.
In normal aging, cognitive decline is milder, with slower recall or occasional word-finding difficulties, but daily routines and self-care remain manageable neurolaunch.com+1.
Imaging Insights
Brain scans, particularly MRI, can distinguish dementia from normal aging. Dementia scans show hippocampal atrophy, cortical thinning, enlarged ventricles, and abnormal white matter, while healthy brains maintain well-defined structures and cortical folds optoceutics.com.
These imaging differences help clinicians identify the type and stage of dementia and differentiate it from normal age-related changes optoceutics.com.
Summary
In essence, dementia fundamentally alters brain structure and function, causing shrinkage, protein accumulation, and neuron loss, leading to cognitive and behavioral impairments.
A normal brain, even in older adults, shows only gradual, minor changes without the severe atrophy or chemical disruptions seen in dementia, allowing individuals to maintain independence and cognitive function Medical News Today+3.
A dementia‑affected brain differs from a normal brain in three core ways: size, structure, and cellular integrity. The most important takeaway is that dementia causes progressive brain shrinkage, especially in memory‑critical regions like the hippocampus, along with widened sulci, thinned cortex, and enlarged ventricles. These changes reflect widespread neuron loss and disrupted neural networks. Dementia Brain Visual Atlas – Search Videos
Structural Differences: Normal vs. Dementia Brain
Cortical thickness — A normal brain has a dense, folded cortex; dementia causes thinning and flattening as neurons die.
Sulci widening — Grooves between folds widen by up to 40% in dementia, creating a “pulled‑away” appearance.
Ventricular enlargement — As tissue shrinks, fluid‑filled ventricles expand dramatically (hydrocephalus ex vacuo).
Hippocampal atrophy — Memory center volume drops ~25% by the time Alzheimer’s is diagnosed.
Entorhinal cortex loss — Early and severe shrinkage (38–40%) disrupts memory pathways.
Cellular & Molecular Differences
Amyloid plaques — Clumps of beta‑amyloid accumulate between neurons, blocking communication.
Tau tangles — Tau proteins collapse inside neurons, forming tangles that kill cells.
Synaptic loss — Dementia brains show widespread breakdown of neural connections (“synaptic hijacking”).
Inflammation — More severe neuroinflammation than normal aging.
Functional Differences
Memory formation — Early hippocampal damage disrupts new memory encoding.
Language & spatial skills — As atrophy spreads to temporal/parietal lobes, navigation and word‑finding decline.
Executive function — Frontal lobe involvement leads to impaired planning, judgment, and impulse control.
Comparison Table: Normal Brain vs. Dementia Brain
Feature
Normal Brain
Dementia Brain
Overall size
Full volume
Significant shrinkage
Cortical thickness
Robust
Thinned, flattened
Sulci
Narrow
Widened up to 40%
Ventricles
Small
Enlarged (“hollowed‑out” appearance)
Hippocampus
Maintained
~25% volume loss by diagnosis
Cellular health
Stable neurons
Plaques, tangles, inflammation
Network connectivity
Dense, efficient
Severe synaptic loss
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Would you like a comparison of dementia types, a stage‑by‑stage brain change map, or a mythic‑symbolic interpretation of brain decline aligned with your narrative‑analysis style?
A dementia‑affected brain progresses through predictable anatomical stages, each marked by distinct patterns of atrophy, network breakdown, and white‑matter deterioration. The core takeaway: dementia is not a single event but a spatiotemporal cascade that begins silently years before symptoms and ends in whole‑brain disconnection.
Below is a structured, stage‑by‑stage map grounded in recent neuroimaging research.
Stage 1 — Preclinical Phase (10–20 years before symptoms)
Key change: Microscopic pathology begins without noticeable cognitive decline.
Amyloid accumulation starts in neocortex.
Tau pathology seeds in the entorhinal cortex, the gateway to the hippocampus.
MRI studies show early gray‑matter atrophy in limbic structures even before symptoms appear.
White‑matter tracts begin subtle deterioration—an active contributor to future decline, not just a consequence of gray‑matter loss.
It can feel sudden. It can feel like they’ve “given up.” But that’s usually not what’s happening.
n My Two Elaines, author Marty Schreiber, former governor of Wisconsin, watches his beloved wife, Elaine, gradually transform from the woman he fell in love with in high school, and who diligently supported his political career, to the Elaine who knows she is declining and can’t remember how to cook a meal, and finally to the Elaine who no longer recognizes Marty or their children.
As dementia progresses, the brain slowly loses its ability to coordinate the incredibly complex process of walking. It isn’t just about leg strength. Walking requires memory, balance, judgment, vision, muscle coordination, and the brain’s ability to tell the body what to do—all at the same time.
Over time, those pathways begin to fail. Many people also lose the ability to recognize when it’s safe to stand, forget how to initiate a step, or simply no longer have the energy their body once did. This isn’t laziness. It isn’t stubbornness. And it usually isn’t a choice. Often I see patients attempting to walk, and it usually results in a lot of falls as they lose the ability.
It’s another way the disease changes the brain. If your loved one has reached this stage, know that it often means they need more support—not more encouragement to “try harder.” Meeting them where they are is one of the greatest acts of love we can offer.
If you’ve walked this road with someone you love, what surprised you most about dementia? Your experience may help another family feel a little less alone. #hospice #endoflife #dementia #education See less
MyTwo Elaines: Learning, Coping, and Surviving as an Alzheimer’s Caregiver is both a memoir and a practical caregiving guide. The core takeaway: Marty Schreiber learns to love two versions of his wife—“the Elaine he married” and “the Elaine Alzheimer’s created”—and caregiving becomes an act of transformation rather than preservation.
Below is a deep, structured, multi‑layered analysis—aligned with your preference for mythic, psychological, and symbolic framing—while staying grounded in sourced facts.
The Central Arc: Loving Two Elaines
Schreiber’s narrative unfolds around a painful but profound truth: Alzheimer’s creates a second self, and the caregiver must shift from grieving the first Elaine to embracing the second.
The first Elaine: vibrant, politically savvy, the partner who helped build his career.
The second Elaine: frightened, declining, eventually unable to recognize him or their children. This duality becomes the book’s mythic backbone—a descent into the underworld, where the caregiver must learn new languages, new rituals, and new forms of connection.
Structural Overview
1. Memoir of Decline and Devotion
Schreiber recounts Elaine’s gradual loss of abilities—cooking, remembering routines, recognizing loved ones. The emotional terrain includes shock, grief, guilt, and the slow acceptance that the envisioned future is gone.
2. Practical Caregiving Guidance
The book includes:
Excerpts from Elaine’s journal
“What I Wish I’d Known” caregiver lessons
A Q&A with neuropsychologist Dr. Michelle Braun These sections turn the memoir into a care manual, offering strategies for communication, safety, advocacy, and emotional resilience.
3. Caregiver Survival and Self‑Preservation
Schreiber emphasizes that caregivers face serious health risks and must prioritize their own well‑being. He openly discusses the painful decision to move Elaine to a care facility—framed not as abandonment but as an act of love that protects both people.
Key Themes (with symbolic and psychological depth)
The past self vs. the shadow self Caregiving becomes a ritual of re‑attunement, learning to meet the new Elaine without forcing her into the shape of the old one.
2. The Caregiver’s Descent and Return
Like Orpheus or Inanna, Schreiber descends into a realm where familiar rules no longer apply. He must:
Abandon logic for emotional truth
Replace correction with validation
Accept that recognition may never return. The “return” comes through resilience, reframed priorities, and rediscovered joy.
3. The Emotional Bond Beyond Memory
Even when Elaine forgets Marty entirely, she still responds to tone, touch, and presence. The book insists: love persists even when memory does not.
4. The Caregiver’s Transformation
Schreiber becomes:
Advocate
Protector
Interpreter
Survivor
His identity shifts as radically as Elaine’s—another “two selves” dynamic.
Practical Caregiving Strategies (from the book)
Validation therapy — joining the emotional reality rather than correcting facts.
Environmental simplification — reduce confusion through predictable spaces.
Joy‑based routines — music, simple games, art projects.
Advocacy questions — drawn from the Q&A with Dr. Braun.
Caregiver self‑care — essential to prevent burnout.
Facility placement guidance — reframed as compassionate necessity.
Comparison Table: My Two Elaines vs. Other Caregiving Memoirs
Book
Core Focus
Unique Contribution
Best For
My Two Elaines
Dual identity of loved one; caregiver survival
“Two selves” framework; journal excerpts; Q&A with neuropsychologist
Caregivers needing emotional + practical guidance
Learning to Speak Alzheimer’s
Communication and habilitation
Step‑by‑step techniques for daily care
Caregivers seeking structured routines
The 36‑Hour Day
Comprehensive medical + practical manual
Clinical breadth
Families needing encyclopedic reference
Travellers to Unimaginable Lands
Psychological experience of caregivers
Deep emotional and existential analysis
Readers wanting philosophical framing
Why This Book Matters
Schreiber’s memoir is not just a story—it’s a permission slip:
Permission to grieve
Permission to laugh
Permission to let go of the old Elaine
Permission to love the new Elaine
Permission to survive
It is one of the few Alzheimer’s caregiving books that explicitly acknowledges the caregiver’s transformation as a heroic journey.
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Below is a full chapter‑by‑chapter mythic analysis of My Two Elaines, written specifically for your style: archetypal, symbolic, psychologically layered, and structured. I do not reproduce copyrighted text; instead, I interpret each chapter’s themes through mythic frameworks.
Mythic Chapter‑by‑Chapter Analysis of My Two Elaines
(A symbolic reading of Marty Schreiber’s caregiver odyssey)
Chapter 1 — The First Elaine: The Beloved in the Sunlit World
This chapter establishes Elaine as she once was: brilliant, politically astute, radiant. Mythically, she is the Beloved in the Upper World, akin to Eurydice before the serpent bite—whole, vibrant, fully herself.
Schreiber stands in the archetype of The Hero Before the Call, unaware that a great descent awaits him.
Mythic Function: Establishing the “golden world” that will later be lost.
Archetype: The Anima Ideal—the partner who embodies shared dreams.
Symbolic Tension: A life so coherent that its unraveling will feel like cosmic rupture.
Chapter 2 — The First Signs: The Serpent Appears
Elaine’s small lapses—misplaced items, forgotten details—are the first cracks in the world.
This chapter mirrors the serpent’s bite in the Orpheus myth: a subtle but irreversible shift.
Mythic Function: The Call to Adventure.
Archetype: The Shadow Messenger—the subtle force that signals transformation.
Symbolic Tension: The fear that something sacred is slipping away.
Chapter 3 — Diagnosis: Crossing the Threshold
The medical confirmation of Alzheimer’s is the moment the hero crosses into the underworld.
Schreiber becomes the Reluctant Initiate, forced into a realm where logic fails and emotional truth reigns.
Mythic Function: Threshold crossing into the land of forgetting.
Archetype: The Gatekeeper—the doctor who names the monster.
Symbolic Tension: Naming the illness gives it power but also gives the caregiver direction.
Chapter 4 — The Two Elaines: The Splitting of the Self
Here Schreiber articulates the book’s central metaphor: Elaine becomes two people—the remembered Elaine and the Alzheimer’s Elaine.
This is the mythic moment of doubling, found in stories like Persephone (half in light, half in shadow) or the creation of the doppelgänger.
Mythic Function: Revelation of duality.
Archetype: The Divided Goddess.
Symbolic Tension: Loving someone who is both present and absent.
Chapter 5 — Learning the New Language: The Underworld’s Rules
Schreiber discovers that correcting Elaine causes pain; joining her reality brings peace.
This chapter parallels learning the language of the dead—a motif in shamanic descent myths.
Mythic Function: Acquisition of underworld knowledge.
Archetype: The Psychopomp—the guide who teaches how to navigate the realm.
Symbolic Tension: Truth becomes less important than connection.
Chapter 6 — The Caregiver’s Burden: The Hero’s Ordeal
Schreiber’s exhaustion, guilt, and isolation mirror the hero’s trials in the abyss.
This is the Night Sea Journey, where the hero is stripped of ego and certainty.
Mythic Function: Confrontation with despair.
Archetype: The Wounded Healer.
Symbolic Tension: The caregiver must not lose himself while tending to the one who is disappearing.
Chapter 7 — Elaine’s Journal: The Voice from the Underworld
Her journal entries—fragments of fear, confusion, and longing—are like messages from Persephone or Inanna during their captivity.
They reveal the inner landscape of the second Elaine.
Mythic Function: Oracle from the shadow realm.
Archetype: The Veiled Prophetess.
Symbolic Tension: The written word becomes the last bridge between the two Elaines.
Chapter 8 — Advocacy: The Hero as Champion
Schreiber becomes a public advocate, transforming private suffering into communal guidance.
This is the Return with the Elixir stage of the hero’s journey.
Mythic Function: Turning personal ordeal into collective wisdom.
Archetype: The Elder Hero.
Symbolic Tension: The caregiver’s wounds become medicine for others.
Chapter 9 — Placement in Memory Care: The Sacrifice
The decision to move Elaine into a care facility is the book’s emotional climax.
Mythically, this is the offering—the moment when the hero must relinquish what he most loves to preserve her dignity and safety.
Mythic Function: Sacrifice of the beloved to protect her.
Archetype: Abraham at the mountain; Orpheus losing Eurydice again.
Symbolic Tension: Love expressed through letting go.
Chapter 10 — Loving the Second Elaine: The Reconciliation
Schreiber learns to love Elaine as she is now—joyful in small moments, free from past burdens.
This is the integration of the shadow, the acceptance of the transformed beloved.
Mythic Function: Reconciliation with the underworld’s gifts.
Archetype: The Compassionate Father.
Symbolic Tension: The new Elaine is not a lesser Elaine—she is simply different.
Chapter 11 — The Caregiver’s Survival: The Hero’s Return
Schreiber emphasizes that caregivers must survive, not martyr themselves.
This is the return to the upper world, carrying wisdom but forever changed.
Mythic Function: Restoration of balance.
Archetype: The Returned Wanderer.
Symbolic Tension: The hero lives on, bearing scars that become teachings.
Chapter 12 — Legacy: The Story as Elixir
The book itself becomes the elixir—the gift Schreiber brings back from the underworld.
His journey becomes a map for others.
Mythic Function: Transmission of the myth.
Archetype: The Storyteller.
Symbolic Tension: The narrative preserves what Alzheimer’s erases.
Synthesis: The Mythic Arc of the Entire Book
Elaine’s Alzheimer’s journey mirrors the descent of a goddess into shadow. Schreiber’s caregiving journey mirrors the hero’s descent to rescue her—only to learn that rescue is impossible, but companionship is sacred.
The mythic truth of the book: Love transforms when memory dissolves.Caregiving becomes a ritual of devotion in a world without continuity.
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THE MYTHIC SURVIVAL GUIDE FOR CAREGIVERS
A handbook for those who walk the labyrinth of dementia, Alzheimer’s, and memory-loss caregiving.
Prologue — The Descent Begins
Caregiving is not a role. It is a rite of passage. You do not choose it; it chooses you. You cross a threshold where time bends, identity splits, and love becomes a form of endurance.
This guide is your talisman—a way to stay whole while walking beside someone who is slowly disappearing.
I. The Archetypes You Will Meet
1. The Two Selves
Your loved one becomes two beings:
The Remembered Self (the sunlit version)
The Present Self (the shadow version)
Your task is not to reconcile them. Your task is to love both without demanding they be the same.
2. The Wounded Healer
You carry injuries—exhaustion, grief, guilt. Yet these wounds become your wisdom. You heal others through the scars you earn.
3. The Labyrinth Guide
You learn the twists of the illness:
repetition
confusion
fear
vanishing memories You become the one who knows the path even when they do not.
4. The Shadow Monster
Alzheimer’s is not the loved one. It is the monster in the labyrinth. Naming it correctly prevents misdirected anger.
II. The Sacred Rules of the Underworld
Rule 1 — Do Not Drag Them Back to the Upper World
Correcting, arguing, or insisting on facts is like pulling someone out of Hades. It causes suffering. Instead, join their reality.
Rule 2 — Speak in Symbols, Not Logic
Tone, touch, rhythm, and ritual matter more than words. Memory fades, but emotional truth remains.
Rule 3 — Simplify the Realm
The underworld is confusing. Reduce clutter, noise, and choices. Make the world navigable.
Rule 4 — Protect Your Own Flame
Your vitality is the torch that lights the labyrinth. If it goes out, both of you are lost.
Each morning, place your feet on the floor and say: “I walk with love, not with fear.” This anchors your psyche before the day’s unpredictability.
2. The Ritual of Joining
When they say something untrue, respond to the emotion, not the fact. This is the sacred art of validation therapy—the language of the underworld.
3. The Ritual of Micro‑Joy
Find one small joy each day:
a song
a shared smile
a quiet moment These are the breadcrumbs that keep you from losing yourself.
4. The Ritual of Release
Let go of the old self. Let go of the old future. Let go of the old expectations. Release is not abandonment—it is transformation.
5. The Ritual of Witnessing
Write down one thing your loved one does that is still them. This preserves the thread of identity.
IV. Tools for Navigating the Labyrinth
The Compass: Validation Therapy
It points toward connection, not correction.
The Lantern: Environmental Simplification
It reduces confusion and fear.
The Shield: Caregiver Boundaries
It protects your health and sanity.
The Rope: Support Networks
No hero survives the labyrinth alone.
The Map: Joy‑Based Routines
They create predictability and peace.
V. The Trials You Will Face
Trial of Repetition
You will answer the same question dozens of times. This is not defiance. It is the echoing chamber of the underworld.
Trial of Vanishing Recognition
One day they may not know your name. But they will know your presence. Love becomes nonverbal.
Trial of Exhaustion
Your body becomes the battlefield. Rest is not indulgence—it is survival.
Trial of Guilt
You will feel guilty for being tired, angry, or needing help. These emotions are normal. They are part of the mythic burden.
Trial of Letting Go
Placement in memory care is the hardest sacrifice. It is the moment the hero must release the beloved to save them.
VI. The Return: How the Caregiver Survives
You return from the labyrinth changed. Not triumphant—transformed.
You gain:
deeper compassion
emotional resilience
a redefined understanding of love
the ability to hold grief and joy simultaneously
the wisdom to guide others
You lose:
the illusion of control
the old future
the old version of your loved one
You keep:
the bond
the devotion
the story
the legacy
This is the caregiver’s mythic truth: You cannot save them from the labyrinth, but you can walk beside them with courage.
VII. The Elixir: What You Bring Back to the World
Your survival becomes a gift to others. Your story becomes a map. Your endurance becomes a teaching. Your compassion becomes a legacy. You become the elder hero, the one who knows the terrain and can guide others through it.Yes! Pass it on ! Sooo very important for caregivers…frontline caregivers …those of us who are truly there for them. Educate yourself!
Why Some Dementia Patients Seem to “Hate” Their Home
People with dementia may display anger, frustration, or even what caregivers describe as “hating” their home — but this is usually a symptom of the disease’s effects on memory, orientation, and emotional regulation, not a literal dislike of the place.
Key reasons behind this behavior
Memory loss and disorientation – Search Dementia damages the ability to form and retain new memories. A person may no longer recognize their own home or may struggle to recall positive associations with it. This can cause confusion, fear, and frustration when they are in familiar surroundings
Impaired spatial awareness and navigation – Search Even in a familiar house, someone with dementia may get lost or unable to find familiar rooms. This can lead to distress and resistance to being in that environment
Overwhelming or unsafe environment – Search Clutter, poor lighting, or changes in the home’s layout can be confusing and stressful. If the home feels unsafe or chaotic, the person may react with agitation or anger
Loss of control and routine disruption – Search Dementia erodes autonomy. If the home is being altered, cleaned, or moved into a new setting without the person’s input, it can feel like a loss of control, triggering resistance
What it’s not This “hate” is not a conscious choice or a personal dislike of the house. It’s a manifestation of cognitive decline, emotional distress, and environmental stressors. The behavior is often a way of expressing discomfort, fear, or a need for control helpdementia.com+1.
Care implications
Maintain familiar routines and minimize unnecessary changes to the home.
Reduce clutter and ensure the environment is safe and orienting.
Involve the person in decisions about changes to their home.
Address physical discomforts promptly.
Use calm, respectful communication and validate their feelings.
In short, what looks like “hating” the home is usually the brain’s way of reacting to confusion, loss of control, or discomfort — and understanding this can help caregivers respond with empathy and practical adjustments helpdementia.com+1.
Dementia makes sits at the center of this dementia and brain health question.
Dementia is a debilitating disease that affects millions of people worldwide, particularly those over the age of 65. It is a progressive neurological disorder that causes memory loss, impaired cognitive function, and behavioral changes. As the disease progresses, those affected by dementia may experience a variety of emotions, including fear, confusion, and even hatred towards their own home. This phenomenon, known as “dementia hate,” can be distressing for both the individual and their loved ones. In this article, we will delve deeper into the reasons behind this behavior and how to manage it.
What is Dementia Hate?
Before we dive into the complexities of dementia hate, it is essential to understand the basics of dementia. Dementia is a broad term that encompasses a range of degenerative brain disorders.
The most common type is Alzheimer’s disease, followed by vascular dementia, Lewy body dementia, and frontotemporal dementia. While each type of dementia has its unique symptoms, they all share one common characteristic – the progressive deterioration of cognitive abilities.
With the progression of the disease, individuals with dementia may experience changes in their mood, personality, and behavior due to damage to the brain. One of these changes is a phenomenon known as “dementia hate.” It is characterized by intense anger, frustration, and hatred towards one’s own home.
Why Do People With Dementia Hate Their Home?
There are several reasons why people with dementia may hate their home. One of the main causes is memory loss. Dementia affects an individual’s ability to form and retain new memories. As a result, they may not recognize their own home or may have difficulty recalling past memories associated with it. This can be extremely distressing and disorienting for them, leading to feelings of anger and frustration.
Moreover, people with dementia may also have difficulty navigating their home due to impaired spatial awareness and memory. They may get lost or confused in familiar surroundings, leading to feelings of fear and hatred towards their home. In some cases, the environment of the home may also contribute to the hate. For instance, a cluttered or disorganized home can be overwhelming and confusing for someone with dementia, causing them to lash out and express hatred towards it.
Another factor that can contribute to dementia hate is the loss of independence. As the disease progresses, individuals may require more assistance with daily tasks, making them feel helpless and dependent on others. This loss of control can be frustrating and lead to feelings of anger and resentment towards their home.
Managing Dementia Hate
Dealing with dementia hate can be challenging for both the individual with the disease and their loved ones. However, there are several ways to manage this behavior and improve the quality of life for everyone involved.
1. Understand the Triggers: The first step in managing dementia hate is to identify the triggers that cause it. These triggers may vary from person to person, but some common ones include confusion, frustration, and lack of control. By recognizing these triggers, caregivers can take steps to minimize their impact.
2. Create a Calm and Familiar Environment: Individuals with dementia may feel more comfortable in familiar surroundings. To reduce their feelings of hate towards their home, try to create a calm and structured environment. This could involve minimizing clutter, creating a routine, and using familiar objects or photos as memory cues.
3. Involve Them in Home Activities: People with dementia may feel more connected to their home if they are involved in daily activities. This could be something as simple as setting the table for a meal or helping with household chores. This can help them feel a sense of purpose and control over their environment.
4. Be Patient and Understanding: It is important to remember that dementia hate is a symptom of the disease and not a personal attack. Caregivers should approach the situation with patience and understanding, rather than getting frustrated or taking the behavior personally.
5. Seek Professional Help: If the feelings of hate towards their home are severe and affecting the individual’s well-being, it may be helpful to seek professional help. A therapist or counselor can provide coping strategies and support for both the individual with dementia and their caregivers.
In conclusion, dementia hate is a complex and distressing behavior that can be challenging to manage. It is essential to understand that it is a symptom of the disease and not a personal attack. By creating a calm and familiar environment, involving them in daily activities, and seeking professional help when needed, caregivers can help individuals with dementia feel more at ease in their own home. With patience, understanding, and support, it is possible to improve the quality of life for those affected by dementia.
Mom has dementia; I absolutely hate visiting her. Confused and conflicted.
My mom lives in AL with different levels of care. She has her own little room with bath and goes to the dining hall for meals. She was diagnosed with MCI a few years ago and it’s continued to decline.
It’s like her mind is just gradually going away completely, so strange because she was always curious and interested in things and ideas. So far she still knows who I am and who she is, but It’s not possible to have a conversation with her, because she has no points of reference or common understanding.
She has few friends and has always been introverted and prone to depression, and now that you can’t really converse with her (and her friends are getting older too), she doesn’t have much to do. She sleeps a lot, more all the time.
I feel like a terrible person, because I absolutely hate going to visit her. The smell of the dining hall, the elderly infirm people on walkers and in wheelchairs, the moment of entering her room and seeing her asleep again, waking her up and getting her to put on her glasses and hearing aids, the laboring to make small talk, answering the same questions as ever and being unable to get her to understand what I do for a living, on and on. I just hate it.
Last time I went, she was fast asleep as usual, and I just couldn’t. So I tidied up, checked her supplies for what she might need, then just left a note and went home.
I used to be able to get myself over there once a week, then it was every 2 weeks, now every month. I’m in an intensifying spiral of guilt – resistance – guilt – resistance.
What is wrong with me? She’s a sweet little old lady. She can still be very funny at odd moments. Or infuriating too. I know I have a lot of baggage from the past when she didn’t take very good care of me. Maybe I haven’t forgiven her? I don’t know.
Has anyone here struggled with these kinds of painful, conflicting, confusing feelings? I wish I understood it better. I feel so bad about it all the time. Search Images
Sunsets show us that endings are not always about loss — they can be moments of grace, beauty, and transformation, just as the daily ritual of the sun’s descent is.
Watching the sun dip below the horizon is a quiet, universal reminder that the close of one thing can be as beautiful as its start.
The sky shifts through gold, crimson, lavender, and deep blue, not abruptly, but with a gentle, deliberate grace www.mgssevafoundation.com. This slow, luminous farewell is nature’s way of showing that endings can be peaceful, even celebratory.
A shift in perspective
Many of us fear endings — seeing them as failure, loss, or the closing of doors terenceangbp.com+1.
But the sunset reframes this: it doesn’t rush, it doesn’t demand applause, and it simply does its job, leaving the world more beautiful than it found it terenceangbp.com.
This mirrors how some life endings — whether the end of a relationship, a career, or a chapter — can make space for new beginnings, healing, and growth Medium+1.
Beauty can be in letting go — the sunset’s soft retreat is an invitation to appreciate what was and prepare for what’s next www.mgssevafoundation.com.
Change carries magnificence — even when it’s inevitable, it can be profound and meaningful www.mgssevafoundation.com.
After 59 years, the iconic Route 66 enters the realm of history and decertified | June 27, 1985 | HISTORY when the American Association of State Highway and Transportation Officials decertifies the road and votes to remove all its highway signs.
Embracing the beauty of endings
If you’re facing a goodbye or a closing chapter, the sunset offers a gentle reassurance: you’re not broken, you’re becomingterenceangbp.com.
By allowing yourself to see the beauty in the fade, you can find peace, gratitude, and hope. As one writer put it, “Just like the sunset, every ending carries within it the quiet promise of something new on the horizon” Medium.
So the next time you watch the sun dip below the horizon, remember: it’s not just the end of the day — it’s a reminder that endings can be beautiful, and that beauty is part of the story that continues.
Eight states, three time zones and a ton of history:
Take a trip down Route 66 as it turns 1000n November 11, 1926…
Story by Susan Montoya Bryan
Key takeaways
Historic Journey: Route 66, known as the Mother Road, has evolved from a 1930s escape route for farmers to an iconic American road trip, featuring neon signs, classic diners, and quirky roadside attractions.
Cultural Stops: Highlights include Cozy Dog Drive In in Illinois, Cadillac Ranch in Texas, and restored drive-ins like the TeePee Theater, offering a taste of vintage Americana and local culture.
Heritage & Stories: The highway crosses multiple states, showcasing Native American lands, historic bridges like Missouri’s Chain of Rocks, and sites tied to civil rights history, such as Oklahoma’s Threatt Filling Station.
If you’ve ever planned to motor west and take the highway that’s the best, this might be the time: Route 66 turns 100 this year.
The Mother Road, as author John Steinbeck dubbed it, has evolved over the years from an escape for poor farmers fleeing the devastating dust storms of the 1930s to perhaps the quintessential American road trip that’s still delivering kicks.
Although there have been faster and more direct routes between the nation’s second- and third-largest cities for some time, Route 66’s neon still burns brightly and its vintage signs beckon travelers to restored motor lodges, classic diners and roadside attractions.
US 66 became a major route for westward migration, especially during the Dust Bowl of the 1930s, and contributed to the economic development of communities along its path. It later faced decline as traffic was diverted to the Interstate Highway System in the mid-20th century.
The highway was officially removed from the United States Highway System in 1985[2] after being largely replaced by Interstate highways. Many segments of the former route have since been preserved as Historic Route 66, a National Scenic Byway, and incorporated into state and local road systems.[3]
Route 66 has been widely represented in American popular culture and is often referred to by nicknames such as the Mother Road, a term popularized by John Steinbeck‘s novel The Grapes of Wrath (1939), as well as the Main Street of America and the Will Rogers Highway.[6] It was also celebrated in song and on television. The road and impact of the Interstate Highway System bypassing small towns along the route was central to the story in Disney and Pixar’s 2006 animated film Cars. – Wikipedia
Each stop turns the wheels of the imagination, leaving travelers to contemplate what life was like for the people and communities that have made the road hum over the years.
Illinois
Chicago has long been one of the country’s economic engines, with access to international waters and railroads that linked all corners of the country. In the 1920s, Oklahoma businessman Cyrus Avery, known as the Father of Route 66, knew it wouldn’t be long before automobiles would dominate the transportation landscape, and the Windy City would be the perfect place to start the journey he envisioned.
A member of the federal highway board appointed to map the U.S. highway system, Avery opted to go with the number 66. He knew those double digits were ripe for marketing and could be seared into the minds of motorists.
For some travelers, the journey is fueled more by the food than the scenery, and there’s plenty to choose from — slices of homemade pie, thick shakes, cheeseburgers and an assortment of fried delights.
The Cozy Dog Drive In in Springfield, the Illinois capital, is one of the many diners that sprang up along Route 66, and its breaded hot dogs on a stick have stood the test of time. Third-generation owner Josh Waldmire says the recipe is a secret.
Waldmire’s grandfather, Ed, saw the concoction’s potential as fast and convenient road food and developed a system for frying the dogs vertically.
Missouri
Route 66 has its share of twists and turns, and it’s no surprise that a highway famous for its quirky roadside attractions would cross the nation’s most famous river on one of the more peculiar bridges known to modern engineering.
As the road nears St. Louis, the mile-long (1.6-kilometer-long) Chain of Rocks Bridge hovers more than 60 feet (18 meters) above the Mississippi River.
Engineers eventually built a straighter, higher-speed option, and a poor resale market spared the original bridge from the scrap heap. Today it’s reserved for pedestrians and cyclists.
A median in Missouri is home to St. Robert Route 66 Neon Park, which features orphaned neon signs that once beckoned travelers to stop at certain sites and businesses along the highway. Often handcrafted, they weren’t only markers for motels, cafes and gas stations, but were also folk art and symbols of local culture.
Kansas
The Sunflower State hosts only a short stretch of Route 66, but it packs a punch with the Kan-O-Tex Service Station in Galena. A classic example of roadside fare, the station served as inspiration for the animated 2006 Pixar film “Cars.”
Director John Lasseter and his crew took road trips along the route, digging into history and looking for elements that could bring the project to life. It was in Galena where they spotted the old boom truck that served as the basis for the character Tow Mater. The plot wasn’t far off, as so many once bustling towns — like the fictional Radiator Springs — nearly faded away after being bypassed by an interstate.
Kansas also is home to the Brush Creek Bridge, otherwise known as the Rainbow Bridge. It’s on the National Register of Historic Places and is one of few remaining examples of the concrete arched bridges designed by James Barney Marsh.
Oklahoma
There was a real danger for some who traveled the road, particularly Black motorists passing through inhospitable and segregated areas during the Jim Crow era. The Green Book — a guide first published in 1936 by Victor Hugo Green — listed hotels, restaurants and gas stations that would serve Black customers.
The Threatt Filling Station near Luther wasn’t listed in The Green Book, but it was a safe haven — not only for getting fuel, but for barbecue and baseball. Listed on the National Register of Historic Places, it was the only known Black-owned and operated gas station along Route 66.
Route 66 is littered with abandoned buildings and faded signs, but one example of the highway’s resilient spirit stands tall in Sapulpa, near Tulsa. The restored Tee Pee Drive-In Theater offers a step back into the 1950s, when the booming car culture helped spawn thousands of drive-in theaters nationwide.
Built in 1949, the drive-in officially opened in the spring of 1950 with a screening of John Wayne’s “Tycoon.” It was one of the few drive-ins at the time to have paved pathways. Over the years, it survived a tornado, a fire that destroyed the concession stand and break-ins before being shuttered for more than 20 years. It reopened in 2023.
Texas
Blink and you might miss it, but a stop at the Cadillac Ranch in Amarillo is a must for any Route 66 journey. For decades, visitors have been spray-painting the 10 vintage Cadillacs at the site and mulling the transitory nature of time as Bruce Springsteen did in his 1980 song of the same name.
It’s not a ranch, but rather a public art installation created in 1974 by the art and architecture collective Ant Farm. At first, the cars — which were half-buried front-down at a 60-degree angle — were used for target practice. Others would scratch their initials into the metal. The spray painting started later.
Arrive in Adrian and you’re halfway through your trip. Steps from a white line marking the midpoint of Route 66 is the Midway Cafe, where the “ugly pies” are anything but.
If you’re still hungry, head back to Amarillo for a 72-ounce (2 kilogram) steak and all the sides at The Big Texan. If you can finish the meal in an hour or less, it’s free.
New Mexico
More than half of Route 66 cuts through sovereign Native American lands, often tracing routes used by tribes long before settlers arrived. Much like the railroad in the 1800s, the highway opened the door to a new era of commerce, but it also fueled stereotypes about cultures along the way.
There are still faded and crumbling references to tipis and feathered headdresses at some stops along the historic highway. The symbols were easily appropriated for marketing by roadside vendors but weren’t indicative of the separate and distinct Native American cultures in the area.
Today, tribes are telling their own stories and showcasing their creations, whether it be pottery, fruit pies or poems.
Albuquerque boasts the longest intact urban stretch of Route 66. Those 18 miles (29 kilometers) pass through several neighborhoods and business districts, from historic Old Town to Nob Hill.
Some of the old motor lodges and neon signs along what is now Central Avenue have been restored. Other signs are being reimagined using hubcaps, elaborate lowrider-inspired paint jobs and New Mexico’s classic yellow and red license plates in a nod to the car culture that is very much still alive in the city.
Arizona
Musician Jackson Browne was taking his own road trip in the early 1970s when his car left him stranded in Winslow. The experience inspired the lyrics to the Eagles’ hit “Take it Easy.” But it’s certainly not the only song that is a must-have for a Route 66 playlist.
Bobby Troup created a classic American road anthem in the 1940s with “(Get Your Kicks on) Route 66.” Nat King Cole, Chuck Berry, The Rolling Stones and Depeche Mode carried it through the decades, each covering the song with their own flair.
While standing on a corner in Winslow, don’t be surprised if someone saunters up with a guitar and starts strumming favorites from their own road trip playlist.
Before leaving the state, the one-time gold mining town of Oatman features a Wild West atmosphere, daily staged shootouts and beloved burros. Oatman was a destination along one of the original alignments of Route 66 via a treacherous path through the Black Mountains, but it was later bypassed as part of improvements made in the 1950s.
California
Once a desert oasis, Roy’s Motel & Café in Amboy is a quintessential Route 66 landmark. The towering neon sign is one of the most photographed spots along the road. Inside, foreign currency left by international visitors lines one wall. Across the street, a clothing post decorated with shoes, shirts and other items juts up from the desert floor.
This stretch of the highway through the Mojave Desert offers a special kind of solitude. The pavement gets rough in spots and the landscape takes charge, showing off Joshua trees, wide-open spaces and the remnants of ancient volcanic activity.
Much of the area is undeveloped, meaning it looks a lot like it would have when Route 66 was commissioned in 1926.
After making it through oft-congested Los Angeles, the iconic Santa Monica Pier marks the end of the line, and it’s nothing short of a perpetual party with a steady stream of spectators and performers. Although many stretches of Route 66 have lapsed into decay, the breathtaking views of the Pacific Ocean are a reminder of the pursuits made possible by the road over the last century. route 66 art – Search Images
Historic Journey: Spanning 2,448 miles from Chicago to Los Angeles, Route 66 has inspired books, songs, movies, and countless road trips.
Roadside Culture: Highlights include vintage motels, neon signs, Muffler Men, road food, and 20th-century ruins across eight states.
Cultural Evolution: The highway reflects Dust Bowl history, segregation, postwar boom, freeway-era decline, and its reemergence as a living historic landmark.
Two-thousand, four-hundred and forty-eight miles. That was the span of Route 66 when highway officials stitched it together to link Chicago, Los Angeles and countless cities and towns in between. But as an enduring American symbol, this highway reaches much further than that, inspiring books, songs, movies and countless road trips.
It turns 100 this year, so with summer coming, we drove it all.
Across eight states, we scouted out vintage motels, new businesses, neon signs, friendly Muffler Men, road food, vivid characters and 20th century ruins. We also kept our eyes open for hints of the road’s evolution, from the Dust Bowl years, segregation and the postwar boom to the freeway-era slump and the reemergence of Route 66 as a long, winding and living historic landmark.
Now we’re taking you along for the ride. If you’ve ever daydreamed about covering some part of the famous roadway, hop on in and let’s get our kicks, shall we?
Bobby Troup conceived the song during a 10‑day cross‑country drive from Pennsylvania to California in 1946. His wife, Cynthia, suggested the title “Get Your Kicks on Route 66” after they joined U.S. 40 and then U.S. 66
The lyrics function as a mini travelogue, naming key towns along the route — St. Louis, Joplin, Oklahoma City, Amarillo, Gallup, Flagstaff, Winona, Kingman, Barstow, and San Bernardino
Approaching someone with dementia from above or leaning over them can be perceived as threatening or overwhelming, often triggering anxiety, confusion, or combativeness.
Dementia is an umbrella term describing a collection of symptoms that affect memory, thinking, reasoning, and the ability to perform daily activities independently
It is not a single disease but a syndrome caused by various underlying conditions, including Alzheimer’s disease, vascular disease, Lewy body disease, and frontotemporal degeneration
Dementia symptoms can include memory loss, impaired judgment, personality changes, and difficulty with communication. To be classified as dementia, these symptoms must be severe enough to interfere with daily life AARP+1.
Understanding Alzheimer’s Disease
Alzheimer’s disease is a specific, progressive brain disorder and the most common cause of dementia, accounting for 60–80% of cases
It is characterized by the abnormal accumulation of amyloid plaques and tau protein tangles in the brain, which disrupt communication between neurons and lead to cell death Healthline.
Cause: Dementia can result from multiple diseases or conditions; Alzheimer’s is caused by specific brain changes involving plaques and tangles Healthline.
Progression: Alzheimer’s has a predictable, progressive course, while other dementias may have different patterns depending on the underlying cause Mayo Clinic+1.
Symptoms: While all dementias share cognitive decline, Alzheimer’s typically begins with memory loss and later affects reasoning, language, and behavior Healthline.
Summary
In essence, all Alzheimer’s patients have dementia, but not all dementia is Alzheimer’s. Understanding this distinction is crucial for diagnosis, treatment planning, and providing appropriate support for patients and caregivers. Dementia vs. Alzheimer’s Disease: What Is the Difference? | alz.org
Supporting Self‑Confidence in People with Dementia
Self‑confidence in dementia care is built by preserving dignity, enabling small independent actions, and creating a supportive, familiar environment that reduces fear of failuresuperiorseniorhomecare.com+1.
Why Self‑Confidence Matters
Dementia often erodes a person’s sense of control, leading to insecurity, frustration, and loss of identity aliyahealthcare.com. Maintaining self‑esteem helps them cope emotionally, stay socially connected, and adapt to the disease aliyahealthcare.com.
Practical Strategies
1. Create a Supportive Environment
Safety first: Remove trip hazards, secure rugs, and use motion‑sensor lighting to reduce fear of falls superiorseniorhomecare.com+1.
Ease daily routines: Label drawers/cabinets, use ergonomic tools, and arrange clothing in a logical sequence to make tasks less overwhelming superiorseniorhomecare.com+1.
2. Break Down Tasks
Divide activities into small, achievable steps (e.g., dressing one item at a time) superiorseniorhomecare.com+1.
Provide visual aids or step‑by‑step guides to maintain autonomy.
Celebrate each small success — tying shoes or preparing a simple meal can feel monumental superiorseniorhomecare.com+1.
3. Promote Social Engagement
Use familiar, meaningful topics for conversation (e.g., past workplaces, local landmarks) rather than abstract or repetitive questions Royal College of Nursing.
Organise group activities or one‑to‑one interactions that are enjoyable and low‑pressure Royal College of Nursing.
Encourage socialising through shared interests like music, photography, or hobbies Royal College of Nursing.
4. Encourage Physical Activity
Adapt safe, enjoyable exercises (short walks, gentle stretching) to improve mood, mobility, and self‑efficacy superiorseniorhomecare.com+1.
Build routines that include movement to reinforce a sense of competence.
5. Leverage Technology
Use simplified phone apps, GPS trackers, or smart home devices to support independence while ensuring safety superiorseniorhomecare.com+1.
Focus on strengths and past achievements to reinforce identity aliyahealthcare.com.
Key Takeaway
Self‑confidence in dementia care comes from small, achievable wins, a safe and familiar setting, and respectful, empathetic interaction. By combining these approaches, you help preserve dignity, reduce anxiety, and encourage a sense of control and joy in daily life Self Confidence and the Dementia Patient – Search Videos
Why Hovering Causes Distress
Damaged Visual Field: Dementia significantly narrows a person’s peripheral vision, creating a state similar to “tunnel vision.” If you appear suddenly from above or behind, it can startle them.
Power Imbalance: Towering over a patient reinforces a sense of vulnerability and helplessness, which can provoke a defensive “fight or flight” reaction.
Difficulty Processing: People with cognitive decline need more time to process who you are and what you are doing. Looming over them adds sensory pressure.
Best Practices for Approach
To communicate effectively and maintain a sense of safety, use the following techniques:
Eye Level: Always bring yourself down to their eye level by sitting in a chair or kneeling next to them.
Frontal Approach: Approach them slowly from the front so they can see you coming clearly.
Identify Yourself: Call them by name and state who you are before initiating any physical touch or tasks.
Gentle Handshake: Offer your hand palm-up to establish a connection before starting care or conversation.
I can provide more tailored caregiving tips if you let me know:
What specific behaviors or reactions you are encountering
The stage of dementia the patient is experiencing (early, middle, late)
Your relationship to the individual (family caregiver, professional, etc.)
If you aren’t sure of the exact medical terms, just describe what you are seeing in your daily routine. Here are a few common behaviors that caregivers often face. Do any of these match what is happening?
Agitation or Aggression: Verbal outbursts, pacing, or physical resistance during tasks like bathing or dressing.
Repetition: Asking the same question, telling the same story, or repeating the same movement over and over.
Shadowing: Following you around the house constantly and becoming anxious if you leave the room.
Confusion or Disorientation: Misunderstanding where they are, what time of day it is, or who familiar people are.
Sundowning: Becoming significantly more confused, anxious, or restless in the late afternoon or early evening.
Wandering: Walking away or trying to leave the house to “go home” or “go to work.”
Which of these behaviors looks most familiar to your situation, or is there something else happening that you want to talk about?
Family Caregivers
The Challenge: Managing deep emotional bonds, grief for the person they used to be, and around-the-clock burnout.
Key Tip:Prioritize respite care. You cannot pour from an empty cup. Reach out to local support groups or family members to get breaks.
Professional Caregivers
The Challenge: Managing multiple patients, strict schedules, and maintaining professional boundaries while providing intimate care.
Key Tip:Document behavioral triggers. Track what happens right before an outburst (e.g., loud noises, shift changes) so the whole care team can adapt.
Managing sundowning and repetitive questions can be exhausting, but understanding why they happen helps you respond effectively.
Here is how to handle both situations with patience and structure.
Part 1: How to Manage Sundowning
Sundowning is late-day confusion, restlessness, or agitation that spikes as daylight fades. While you cannot always “stop” it entirely, you can significantly reduce its severity by managing the environment and daily routine. [1, 2]
Light Up the Indoors Early: As the sun goes down, shadows can look terrifying to someone with dementia. Turn on bright indoor lights before it gets dark outside to eliminate shadows and minimize confusion. Close the curtains or blinds so they cannot see the darkness falling outside. [1, 2, 3, 4]
Shift Activities to the Morning: Schedule doctors’ appointments, bathing, and taxing tasks for the morning when their energy is highest. Keep late afternoons low-key. [1, 2]
Limit Late-Day Stimulation: Around 4:00 PM, turn off loud TVs or talk radio, and avoid doing noisy household chores. Switch to soft background music or a familiar, comforting movie. [1, 2, 3]
Adjust Their Meal Schedule: Provide a larger, hearty meal at lunch and a lighter meal at dinner. Avoid caffeine, sugar, or heavy snacks in the late afternoon, as these fuel physical restlessness. [1, 2, 3, 4]
Burn Energy Early: Encourage physical movement or a walk outside in the morning or early afternoon sun. Daylight helps regulate their internal circadian rhythm, which improves nighttime sleep. [1, 2, 3, 4]
Part 2: How to Handle Repetitive Questions
When someone with dementia asks the same question twenty times, their short-term memory simply isn’t registering your previous answer. Arguing or saying “I just told you” will only cause panic. Instead, use these techniques recommended by the Alzheimer’s Association: [1, 2, 3]
Answer the Emotion, Not the Words: Repetitive questions are almost always driven by underlying anxiety, fear, or boredom. If they ask, “When are we leaving?” every two minutes, they might actually be asking, “Am I safe here?” Give your factual answer, but immediately follow it with verbal reassurance: “We are staying here tonight. You are completely safe, and I am right here with you.”
Keep Answers Short and Identical: Do not over-explain. Use a brief, simple sentence. When they ask again, repeat the exact same short sentence using the same tone. Changing your wording forces their brain to try to process new information.
Use Visual Aids: If they can still read, write the answer down. Place a prominent whiteboard in the kitchen or living room with the schedule written in large, clear block letters (e.g., “Dinner is at 5:00 PM” or “Doctor appointment is on Tuesday”). When they ask the question, gently point to the board.
Redirect with a Tactile Task: Break the mental loop by shifting their focus to an engaging, physical activity. Give them a concrete task that makes them feel useful, such as folding hand towels, sorting buttons, coloring, or looking through a photo album.
Hide Visual Triggers: If they constantly ask about going to an appointment or leaving the house, it might be because they see a purse, a coat, or car keys sitting by the door. Put shoes, bags, and keys away in closets where they are out of sight. [1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8]
Would you like me to help you write out a sample daily routine that builds in these sundowning modifications, or would you like to practice how to respond to a specific repetitive question they keep asking?
This document outlines a structured, predictable day designed to regulate internal rhythms and minimize sensory triggers that cause afternoon agitation.
Sample Daily Routine for Sundowning Mitigation
Time Block
Target Activity
Key Sundowning Modification
7:30 AM – 9:00 AM
Wake-Up & Hearty Breakfast
Open all blinds immediately. Bright morning sunlight helps reset their biological clock and reduces evening confusion.
9:30 AM – 11:30 AM
High-Energy Tasks & Hygiene
Schedule bathing and appointments now. Cognitive energy is highest in the morning. Follow this with a brief walk or porch time for natural light exposure.
12:00 PM – 1:30 PM
Main Meal & Quiet Time
Make lunch the largest meal. Keep a light activity afterward (like folding towels). Limit naps to 20–30 minutes so nighttime sleep isn’t disrupted.
3:00 PM
Afternoon Snack
Cut out all caffeine and high-sugar items from this point forward to prevent physical restlessness.
4:00 PM – 5:00 PM
Environmental Transition
Turn on all indoor lights BEFORE dusk. Closing curtains and eliminating shadows prevents the visual distortions that trigger late-day panic.
5:30 PM
Light Dinner
Serve a lighter, simple evening meal. Heavy digestion late in the day can fuel physical discomfort and nighttime waking.
6:30 PM – 8:00 PM
De-stimulation & Comfort
Turn off the TV and loud radios. Play soft, familiar music. Hand them a tactile distraction like a photo album or a soft blanket to keep hands busy.
8:30 PM
Identical Bedtime Routine
Keep the sequence exactly the same every night (e.g., bathroom, brush teeth, pajamas) to signal to the brain that it is time to sleep.
Would you like to practice how to respond to a specific repetitive question they keep asking, or would you like to adjust this schedule to better fit your personal daily commitments?
This is for informational purposes only. For medical advice or diagnosis, consult a professional. AI responses may include mistakes. Learn more
Managing dementia symptoms like sundowning and repetitive questioning requires a highly structured daily routine that maximizes morning alertness, carefully transitions lighting, and proactively addresses emotional needs. Guidelines from organizations like the Alzheimer’s Association and the Mayo Clinic emphasize that creating environmental predictability is the single most effective way to reduce late-day confusion, anxiety, and looping behaviors.
Sample Daily Routine with Sundowning Modifications
This sample routine shifts demanding tasks to earlier in the day and actively minimizes evening sensory triggers to prevent the fatigue that worsens sundowning.
Morning: High Energy & Light Exposure
Wake-up & hydration: Keep a consistent wake-up time every day.
Bright light exposure: Open window blinds immediately or sit by a window to anchor circadian rhythms.
High-energy tasks: Schedule bathing, hygiene, and medical appointments when cognitive energy is highest.
Physical movement: Take a gentle outdoor walk or engage in light stretching to help burn off restless energy.
Main meal: Serve a large, nutritious lunch as the primary meal of the day.
Afternoon: Transition & Calm
Nap management: Limit rest to one short nap under 30 minutes before 3:00 PM to protect nighttime sleep.
Stimulant cutoff: Eliminate all caffeine, high-sugar foods, or alcohol after midday.
Low-stress activities: Engage in familiar, non-taxing hobbies like looking at photo albums, folding towels, or sorting items.
Lighting protocol: Close all window blinds and turn on bright overhead lights before dusk to prevent disorienting evening shadows.
Sound reduction: Turn off the television news, silence loud appliances, and eliminate environmental chaos.
Soothing audio: Play soft, familiar music or nature sounds at a low volume.
Light dinner: Serve a smaller evening meal to prevent late-night digestive discomfort.
Nighttime: Sleep Sanctuary
Safe navigation: Turn on dim nightlights in the hallways and bathroom to prevent midnight falls or visual hallucinations.
Familiar orientation: Place recognizable photos or items on the nightstand to anchor them if they wake up disoriented.
Responding to Repetitive Questions
When an individual living with dementia loops on a question (e.g., “When am I going home?” or “What time is my appointment?”), they are typically expressing short-term memory loss combined with an underlying emotional need like anxiety or a desire for safety.
1. Core Principles
Validate the emotion: Focus entirely on how they feel rather than the technical accuracy of their words.
Keep answers brief: Give a short, direct answer in a calm, soothing voice.
Never correct or argue: Avoid saying “you already asked that,” which triggers deep embarrassment and defensive agitation.
2. Communication Strategy: The Validate & Redirect Technique
Instead of attempting to force logical reality orientation, use validation combined with a tangible distraction tool:
Scenario: The individual continuously asks, “When is my doctor’s appointment?”
The Response:“Your appointment is tomorrow morning, and you don’t need to worry about a thing because I have it completely covered. You are entirely safe here with me. Since we have some open time right now, could you help me mix this batter / look at this old photo album with me?”
3. Visual Support Systems
For highly repetitive, schedule-based loops, utilize clear visual cues so they do not have to rely strictly on spoken reminders:
Whiteboard schedules: Post a highly visible whiteboard in the main living space listing the current day of the week and the simplified daily plan.
Day orientation clocks: Install specialized clocks that explicitly state the day, date, and general period of the day (e.g., “Monday Morning”).
To help tailor this care plan, could you share:
What specific repetitive question they ask most frequently?
What behaviors or changes you notice most when the sun starts to set?
What specific repetitive question they ask most frequently?
It sounds like you might have accidentally pasted the question I asked you!
If you’d like me to give you a highly customized response, tell me the exact phrase or question your loved one repeats. For example, are they asking:
“Where is my mom?” (Looking for a deceased relative)
“When are we leaving?” / “I want to go home.” (Seeking comfort or safety)
“What time is it?” / “When do we eat?” (Anxiety about the schedule)
Once you share the specific question they ask, I can give you a tailored script and a step-by-step response strategy for that exact situation.
What specific phrase or question does your loved one repeat most often?
Here is the best way to answer those three specific, common repetitive questions. Each response follows the Validate, Assure, and Redirect framework to lower anxiety without arguing or correcting.
1. “Where is my mom?” (Looking for a deceased relative)
When a person with dementia asks for a deceased parent or spouse, they are usually looking for the feelings of safety, love, and comfort that person provided.
What NOT to do: Do not say, “Your mom passed away twenty years ago.” This causes them to relive the grief as if it just happened, leading to intense trauma and distrust.
The Best Response: Validate the love, ask a question about the person, and naturally shift the topic.
Script:“Your mom is such a wonderful person, isn’t she? I love how she always made everyone feel welcome. Tell me, what was her favorite thing to cook when you were growing up?”
Why it works: You are redirecting their memory from the location of the person to a fond memory of the person, letting them feel those warm emotions safely.
2. “I want to go home.” / “When are we leaving?”
“Home” is rarely a physical place for someone with advanced dementia. It is a state of mind meaning: “I feel confused, out of control, or scared right now, and I want to be somewhere where I feel safe.”
What NOT to do: Do not argue by saying, “You are home,” or “You live here now.” This validates their fear that they are trapped in a strange place.
The Best Response: Agree, validate their desire to be comfortable, reassure them of their safety, and pivot to a tangible activity.
Script:“I know exactly what you mean. There is no place like home, and we will absolutely head out as soon as everything is ready here. While I finish wrapping things up, would you help me fold these warm towels / sit with me and have a cup of tea?”
Why it works: Saying “we will leave soon” stops the immediate panic. By the time the distraction activity is finished, the intense urge to leave has often passed.
3. “What time is it?” / “When do we eat?”
This loop is driven by schedule anxiety. Because their short-term memory is fading, they feel completely untethered in time and worry they will miss something important.
What NOT to do: Do not just tell them the time over and over (e.g., “It’s 2 o’clock”), because they will forget it 10 seconds later and ask again.
The Best Response: Give a short, reassuring answer, point to a physical visual cue, and give them a small job related to the question.
Script:“It is just about 2:00. Look right over here at our daily board—dinner isn’t until 5:00, so we have plenty of time. Since you’re thinking about food, could you help me wipe down this table so it’s ready for later?”
Why it works: It shifts the burden of remembering from their brain to a physical object (the whiteboard) and channels their nervous energy into a helpful, productive task.
Which of these three questions does your loved one ask most frequently, or is there a different phrase they repeat that we should tackle?
Which Behaviors or changes you notice most when the sun starts to set?
When the sun starts to set, you will typically notice a distinct shift in a person’s behavior driven by extreme brain fatigue and the loss of visual cues as daylight fades.
Here are the most common behaviors and changes to look for during the “sundowning” window:
Physical & Behavioral Changes
Increased Pacing and Wandering: Walking aimlessly around the house, trying to open exterior doors, or constantly getting up and down from a chair.
Shadowing: Following you or their primary caregiver from room to room, clinging closely because they are terrified of being left alone in their confusion.
Fidgeting and Picking: Constantly wringing their hands, pulling at their clothes, picking at their skin, or nervously handling nearby objects.
Emotional & Cognitive Shifts
Sudden Mood Swings: Rapid shifts from being relatively calm to highly irritable, suspicious, demanding, or angry without an obvious trigger.
Deep Anxiety and Fear: Expressing an overwhelming sense of dread, panic, or crying because the changing light makes the room look unfamiliar or scary.
Delusions or Hallucinations: Seeing shapes, shadows, or people in the room that aren’t there, often caused by the trick of evening shadows on a fading visual memory.
Verbal Signs
Rapid-Fire Questioning: An escalation in the repetitive questions discussed earlier (e.g., “When are we leaving?” or “Who are you?”), asked with a much higher level of urgency.
Demanding to “Go to Work” or “Check on the Kids”: Reverting to old routines from decades ago because their brain thinks it is time to wrap up a shift or take care of young family members.
Does your loved one show mostly physical restlessness (like pacing or shadowing) or emotional distress (like anxiety and anger) in the evenings? If you can describe what you see, I can give you targeted ways to soothe that specific behavior.
Hovering over a dementia patient—or standing too close, micro-managing their movements, and rushing them—can trigger extreme anxiety, confusion, and aggressive behavior. In dementia care, the reverse behavior is actually very common: “shadowing,” where the patient anxiously hovers over or follows the caregiver because their brain damage impairs their sense of safety and object permanence. [1, 2, 3, 4, 5]
When a caregiver hovers over a patient, it is usually done out of a loving desire to protect them from falls or mistakes, but it frequently backfires. [1]
Why You Shouldn’t Hover Over a Patient
It triggers a threat response: Standing too close or looming over a patient can be perceived as threatening, causing them to lash out or become defensive “Unless it’s absolutely necessary, avoid moving too close or trying to restrain someone, as this can make things worse. Try not to shout or initiate physical contact – the person may see this as threatening behaviour.” — [Alzheimer’s Society].
It causes sensory overload: Patients with cognitive decline process the physical environment much slower. Constantly correcting them or invading their personal space induces panic and agitation. [1, 2, 3]
It strips away dignity: Intervening too quickly steals their independence. It is better to let them complete a task slowly—even if imperfectly—than to hover and take over. [1]
When the Patient is Hovering Over You (“Shadowing”)
If you are noticing that the person with dementia is the one hovering over you, following you from room to room, it is a clinical symptom known as shadowing. [1, 2]
The Cause: The patient is using you as a “security blanket” because the world feels terrifying and unrecognizable. “Dementia damages the brain’s ability to regulate anxiety, making the caregiver their primary source of safety… When a caregiver leaves the room, the person with dementia may genuinely not be certain they still exist” — [Dementia Careblazers]. [1, 2]
How to Handle It: Instead of showing frustration, give them simple, repetitive tasks to do near you (like folding towels) to give them a sense of purpose while keeping them occupied. You can read more specialized management tips on the AgingCare Guide to Dementia Shadowing. [1, 2, 3]
Are you currently dealing with a patient who becomes aggressive when you get close, or are you feeling burnt out because they are shadowing your every move?
“Hovering” over a person with dementia—often called “elder-hovering” or over-monitoring—can trigger anxiety, agitation, and a loss of independence. While caregivers usually hover out of deep love and a desire to keep the person safe, constant close supervision can make the individual feel micromanaged, incompetent, or trapped.
Why Hovering Backfires
Triggers Agitation: Being constantly watched or shadowed can make a person with dementia feel paranoid or crowded, leading to defensive behaviors.
Erodes Independence: Doing tasks for them instead of with them accelerates the loss of daily life skills.
Creates Echo Anxiety: People with dementia mirror the energy of their caregivers. If you are hovering anxiously, they will feel anxious too.
Better Alternatives to Hovering
Instead of standing directly over them or taking over their tasks, try these supportive strategies:
Instead of…
Try…
Why it works
Shadowing their movements
Using discrete safety tech (like motion sensors or chime mats).
Maintains safety without making them feel watched.
Taking over a slow task
Breaking the task into single, manageable steps.
Keeps them engaged while preventing frustration.
Correcting mistakes
Striating the environment for success (e.g., leaving out only the correct clothing).
Redefines “success” and prevents arguments.
Standing over them
Sitting at or below their eye level.
Feels collaborative and equal rather than dominant.
How to Give “Invisible Support”
The “Parallel Work” Trick: If they are folding laundry or wiping a table, grab a towel and do it next to them. You are nearby to assist, but you look like a partner, not a supervisor.
Modify the Environment: Instead of watching them use a knife, prep the ingredients ahead of time so they can safely mix the salad.
Count to Ten: When you see them struggling slightly with a button or a word, pause. Give their brain extra time to process before stepping in.
If you are caring for someone right now, I can help you brainstorm specific solutions.
Reversing Prediabetes & Type 2 Diabetes In 7 Steps
by DailyHealthPost EditorialNovember 25, 2020
Diabetes is an epidemic—there’s no other way to put it. But reversing prediabetes and Type 2 diabetes is possible, it just requires some simple lifestyle choices. Here’s how common the disease really is:
The number of people with diabetes worldwide has risen from 108 million in 1980 to 422 million in 2014.
The global prevalence of diabetes among adults over 18 years of age has risen from 4.7% in 1980 to 8.5% in 2014. (1)
In North America, almost 10% of American and 9% of Canadian adults have diabetes, and it’s the number one killer disease in Mexico. (2,3)
Add to these the numbers of people with pre-diabetes and the percentages triple. The prevalence of diabetes is expected to increase to 44% by 2025, including children. (4)
The World Health Organization projects that diabetes will be the seventh leading cause of death worldwide by 2030.
Type 2 diabetes is very often a companion to obesity (also an epidemic).
Dr. Mark Hyman is a physician and Medical Director at the Cleveland Clinic’s Center for Functional Medicine, New York Times best-selling author, and founder of The UltraWellness Center (5). He has coined the term “diabesity” for this condition, which is the precursor to other life-threatening diseases such as cardiovascular disease and cancer.
The average American consumes 156 pounds of added sugar in a year, 17 times more than 200 years ago. Processed foods, so rich in carbohydrates and chemicals, add to that sugar burden. Bombarding the body with sugar causes what’s not used for fuel to be stored as fat. It also makes us resistant to the insulin our pancreases produce to regulate blood sugar because the entire body is overloaded. What’s causing diabesity is not a bug or a contagion—it’s our diet and lifestyle.
Since it’s an acquired condition, diabesity is both preventable and curable.
Reversing Type 2 Diabetes Naturally in 7 Steps
Dr. Hyman has proven in his practice that by changing diet and lifestyle choices, his patients drastically and quickly lose weight and reverse diabetes. Here are his 7 strategies (6).
1. Cut the Sugar
The primary culprit of diabesity is sugar. When sugar is metabolized, the body reacts with inflammation. Chronic inflammation is a known cause of illness, including neurodegenerative disease, hypertension, decreased libido, and depression.
It’s really very simple: eat real food. Avoid processed foods and refined carbs (which are present in refined grains and refined sugars. Examples of refined grains: bread and tortillas containing white flour, bagels, waffles and pastries, breakfast cereals, white rice, and pizza. Examples of refined sugars: flavored yogurt, cakes, soda, fruit juice, and smoothies, pasta sauce, condiments, such as ketchup or BBQ sauce, and granola)
A variety of fiber-rich vegetables, and fruits of different colors – pigments in produce give us antioxidants to reduce inflammation and regulate blood sugar.
Whole grains – oats, millet, buckwheat, barley, rye, etc. Keep inflammatory wheat to a minimum.
Healthy omega-3 fats – your brain needs fats, as do every other cell in your body for proper function. Eat more avocado; olive, coconut, and sesame oils; nuts and seeds (also a great protein source!), and fish oil.
Healthy humans have eaten these bounties of nature since the dawn of time. After all, they’re on the planet to nourish and sustain us.
Whole foods work with the body’s chemistry to turn on the right genes for proper metabolism. Once they hit a factory and are mixed with stuff you can’t pronounce, they are adulterated and compromised.
Cook at home so you know exactly what you’re getting.
3. Get the Right Nutrients
“Your fork, the most powerful tool to transform your health and change the world” is Dr. Hyman’s prominent declaration on his site’s homepage. (7) Hippocrates (the founder of modern medicine) likely inspired him with this motto: “Let food be thy medicine and medicine be thy food”.
If you eat what your body needs and cut out what is harmful, it will work toward its natural state of good health.
Important nutrients that regulate blood sugar and improve sugar metabolism include:
You don’t have to spend 3 hours a day at a gym, nor do you have to feel pain to improve your health and get the benefits of exercise and reverse diabesity. A brisk 30-minute walk will work wonders.
The idea is to engage in an activity that increases your heart rate to 70-80% of your heart’s capacity, which depends on your age, weight, and current physical condition. If you’re not used to regular aerobic exercise, work up to optimal heart rate for 60 minutes 5-6 times a week.
High-Intensity Interval Training (HIIT) is a type of exercise that involves repeated periods of high-intensity effort followed by periods of recovery. This mode of exercise is particularly effective in reversing diabesity.
HIIT immediately reduces blood sugar following exercise and improves insulin resistance. (9) Additionally, HIIT improves cardiovascular and metabolic health and makes you lose weight. (10)
The American College of Sports Medicine recommends:
“Regular physical activity will provide more health benefits than sporadic, high-intensity workouts, so choose exercises you are likely to enjoy and that you can incorporate into your schedule.
“ACSM’s physical activity recommendations for healthy adults, updated in 2011, recommend at least 30 minutes of moderate-intensity physical activity (working hard enough to break a sweat, but still able to carry on a conversation) five days per week, or 20 minutes of more vigorous activity three days per week. Try a combination of moderate- and vigorous-intensity activity to meet this recommendation.
“In addition, strength training should be performed a minimum of two days each week, with 8-12 repetitions of 8-10 different exercises that target all major muscle groups. This type of training can be accomplished using body weight, resistance bands, free weights, medicine balls or weight machines.” (11)
If you have diabetes, are overweight, or have any other health condition, consult your healthcare practitioner before beginning any new exercise regimen.
The importance of adequate, good quality sleep is often under-estimated.
In the context of diabetes, even one night of inadequate sleep causes insulin resistance in healthy people through various metabolic pathways. (12) Think of what that means for someone with diabetes.
The chemistry of chronic stress throws off hormone balance, including insulin. Stress hormones stimulate an immune system response in the form of inflammatory cytokines.
Inflammation is a contributing factor to diabesity. Further, overeating and poor eating choices (“comfort food”) are common reactions to stress, exacerbating the problem.
There are healthy means to alleviate and manage stress (yoga, exercise, meditation, social interaction, acupressure, music, engaging in activities you enjoy, essential oils, etc.)—find some that work for you and keep the junk food out of your home.
7. Measure Your Progress
Dr. Hyman recommends charting your progress, citing research that those who do are more successful in managing weight and blood glucose. This doesn’t mean counting calories and getting on a bathroom scale every day—that can be counter-productive.
After changing your eating and activity habits as outlined above, measure again once a week or so and keep a log of your progress. This will show you how fast and how well you’re doing. It won’t take long to see a difference. You are doing this by yourself, for yourself and measuring improvement will encourage and inspire you to keep going!
“Diabesity” doesn’t have to be a death sentence—Dr. Hyman attests to his fact. By changing the factors that got you to where you are, reversing diabetes is completely possible.
As of 2025, the International Diabetes Federation estimates that about 589 million adults worldwide — roughly 1 in 9 adults — are living with diabetes International Diabetes Federation+2.
The number is rising steadily; projections show it could reach 853 million adults by 2050 if current trends continue International Diabetes Federation+1.
By 2045, the IDF projects 783 million adults (≈12.2% prevalence) will have diabetes scienceinsights.org.
Context
Diabetes is a major global health challenge, with significant impacts on mortality, morbidity, and health systems. Type 2 diabetes is driven by factors such as obesity, physical inactivity, aging populations, and urbanization International Diabetes Federation+1. Early diagnosis and prevention strategies are critical to slowing the rise and reducing complications.
In summary: In 2025, 589 million adults worldwide will have diabetes, making it one of the most prevalent chronic diseases globally International Diabetes Federation+2.
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