This is Mallory Davenport, my friend from Alabama / Florida who I visited back in 2017.
Loving Life, Having Faith in God is Stronger Than the Fear of Cancer.
What Does the Bible Say About Love Conquers All? (openbible.info)
1 Corinthians 13:7English Standard Version
7 Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
1 Corinthians 13:7 in all English translations
Facing the Fear of Cancer by Joel Schorn – Bing video
She has had cancer since 2012 but her answer to cancer is getting immunotherapy from time to time eating well and loving life along the Gulf Coast. She told me that she doesn’t want to leave the life she loved so well with her husband Jack and what is surrounding her. She feels her love for life gives her the super-duper will and immune system that helps to fight her cancer off.
- You have the energy to keep going in the right direction …
- If you and your partner enjoyed kissing at the beginning of your relationship, making it a more common occurrence again could reignite romantic feelings.
- Kissing causes your brain to release oxytocin and serotonin, promoting bonding, as well as helping you relieve stress and anxiety.
- “Continuing to hug, kiss, [and] snuggle is an important component…but it’s discovering that love can be both adventurous and caring that will reignite passion to live.
Love Conquers all in Scripture – Search Videos (bing.com)
Mallory pictured with her German Shepard Winston Churchill.
#WinstonChurchill#gsd#we don’t deserve dogs
What I have noticed about Mallory is that she has a special spirit about herself that comes from the special family bond and friendships she has in her life. Mallory states in one of her Facebook posts, you can’t worry about the chaos when there is a 100# pound German Shepherd laying by your side. Mainly because you start to think about how this perfect creature, that God made, loves you unconditionally and you’re their whole world.
The sky over Bay Minette in the evening… photo from Mallory Davenport
Mallory gains great joy from the little extra joy from nature that is life.
Mallory thinks your outlook on life helps you defeat cancer…also when you go to Mallory’s facebook page. I have noticed most cancer survivors know more about cancer than doctors themself because of the research that they and their cancer circle of friends do for them. Mallory has a High IQ about cancer awareness with new and continued posts.
On 2-02-2022 I was diagnosed with breast cancer.
Most of you know I’ve been fighting lymphoma for over a decade. I first noticed the tumor in September but didn’t feel like dealing with it at the time. In January I finally decided to have it looked at. I also had a little hope it was just my lymphoma but knew deep down it was breast cancer. Unfortunately, treatment for Hodgkin’s Lymphoma can cause secondary cancers.
It’s a unique situation to have 2 primary cancers at one time
My lymphoma is under control at this time which is great. I’ve had numerous doctors appointments and conversations with my oncologist and radiologist on what’s best for me. They both know I’m going to do things my way because they know I know my body better than anyone. My radiologist, whom I haven’t seen since I had paralysis from the waist down back in 2017, has told me “Mallory, you have defied the odds. “
No one thought you would be here or if you did make it out of that we didn’t think you would be walking without a cane.” We talked for over an hour. He reminded me of what I’ve been through and how mentally strong I am. He told me however I decided to handle this situation he had my back and so does my oncologist, with whatever — I decide to do. Everyone’s response and even my own when they called to tell me it was breast cancer, was “well shit.”
The second response from my close friends and family was “how do you feel about this?”
I would reply, indifferent. Not mad, sad, or scared, just indifferent. Cancer doesn’t scare me. It never has. It sucks, it’s aggravating and annoys me to no end at times but we all face trials in life. Mine is just cancer. I don’t know one person that isn’t facing some obstacle in their life. Life is hard. I try to always figure out what I can learn from the obstacles that I’m faced with.
How can it make me a better person?
I trust God’s will, and whatever he has in store for me.
……So I’ve pondered my situation for months now.
Had conversations with friends who have been through breast cancer to gather all the insider info I can. I’ve learned breast cancer is not like lymphoma. It’s a little bit more difficult to navigate. So here I am navigating through it.. honestly. Sometimes I forget I have cancer until the aches and pains creep up on me at times reminding what my body and mind and spirit have been through.
I’m not your typical cancer patient.
No one can tell I have some disease that’s been trying to kill me for over a decade and now a second one is trying to creep in and take me out 
. So, in my true fashion I decided the best course of action is to up and go on a road trip out west with Jack and hike.
So here I am hiking in the desert in Moab and Bryce Canyon.
8 habits of people who effortlessly attract love into their lives – Hack Spirit
(6 years ago, I thought I would never get to hike again.)
Stay Strong Fellow Warriors | Cancer Quick Facts (solitarius.org)
We are just passersby here, don’t let your obstacles define you. Glory be to God)
The John 3:16 Story | Tim Tebow (youtube.com)
Sorry Mallory it’s The Gators
This Time.
Sia ~ Unstoppable (Lyric Video)
How I Healed From Stage 4 Breast Cancer WIthout Chemo
Crossroads Shannon Knight – Search Images (bing.com)
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My quote is cropped but here are the words.
“I learned in the five years of battling cancer that once you get a diagnosis, it brings you to many crossroads where you have to make tough decisions. You don’t get to see the results in advance. You walk courageously on your chosen path, hoping and praying for the most favorable outcome. I realize that this is life.
Psalm 91:11-12, NLT. God has commanded angels to guard you.
God has given angels, not your circumstance or situation, the authority to act on your behalf. God is your refuge and strength. He is your protection, and He has commanded angels to come to your aid.
Www.ShannonKnight.com
FROM MY HEART
“Reflecting on Fourteen Years of Healing: Understanding, Empathy, and Respect”
I want to share something today. I am approaching this delicately and with deep consideration for each of you. This isn’t just about marking another “breast cancer survival anniversary,” but rather reflecting on the journey of living, healing, and the deeply personal experiences we all face going through breast cancer.
Talking about breast cancer can be incredibly personal. For many women, even writing or saying those words can feel overwhelming. It’s a profoundly intimate experience, different for everyone. I want to acknowledge the sensitivity of this topic and honor the courage it takes to face these delicate conversations together.
“A Heartfelt Story”
Just yesterday, a dear friend of mine, who is healing from stage IV breast cancer, was trying to enjoy a moment of joy and normalcy in her life. Despite her efforts to embrace and savor these moments, she encountered a passive-aggressive comment on social media. The remark was not only insensitive but also deeply hurtful, and witnessing such cruelty was both heartbreaking and deeply upsetting.
No one deserves to be treated poorly, especially when they are simply trying to find some happiness and relief amidst their ongoing struggles. The emotional toll of dealing with cancer is already immense, and facing negative, judgmental comments only adds to this burden.
This experience moved me profoundly and compelled me to share my thoughts today. I have experienced it personally and seen others go through similar and even worse experiences. We have the right to protect our emotional well-being. If you come across negativity that feels hurtful or intrusive, it’s absolutely okay to block those comments or individuals. Your peace of mind and mental health are crucial, and you have every right to safeguard them.
“The Intimate Nature of Breast Cancer”
In 2011, I survived stage IV breast cancer without chemo, which made me quite the controversy. Now, in my fourteenth year of being cancer-free, I understand deeply how delicate and sensitive this diagnosis can be. It touches every part of our lives—physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. Sharing such an intimate part of oneself publicly requires immense courage. Many of us fear judgment or misunderstanding from those who haven’t walked in our shoes. The fear of being seen differently or reduced to our diagnosis is a heavy burden to bear.
I was first diagnosed with breast cancer in 2006, and I was single most of that time. There is an understandable fear of what men may think about dating a woman who has had breast cancer twice. Will she be a burden? These concerns are real and deserving of our empathy and awareness. I am now blessed to be married to a man who loves me as I am, but when I was single, sharing this part of my life felt even more overwhelming. Concerns about dating and approaching the subject can be very sensitive. Once something is shared online, it stays there indefinitely. This can be intimidating and make a deeply personal experience feel exposed.
“The Challenge of Transparency and Privacy”
In 2010, when I had a recurrence at stage IV, I had to raise money for my treatment. It was incredibly difficult to share my personal story publicly. The need for transparency felt like an invasion of my privacy at a time when I was trying to focus on healing. However, without transparency, people find it hard to trust, especially when raising money for alternative cancer treatment like I was doing with “Angels for Shannon” in 2010. It is such a balancing act.
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“Honoring Every Woman’s Choice”
I’ve seen that family or friends can often be unsupportive, adding to the emotional burden. On the other hand, there are those who draw closer, offering consistent support and understanding. This support is crucial and can make all the difference.
I feel that the spiritual impact is significant too. Some women find their faith tested to the breaking point, while others draw closer to God, finding strength and solace in their spiritual beliefs. Supporting women through these spiritual challenges is just as important as addressing their physical and emotional needs.
Every woman’s story is precious and deserves to be heard. When women share their stories so vulnerably, it is a gift to others who can glean something from it and feel a sense of commonality. However, we are not entitled to push for more. Privacy is a powerful part of healing, as it allows us to process and recover on our own terms. Respecting a woman’s right to privacy is essential because it acknowledges her autonomy and personal journey. I want every woman to feel supported in whatever choice she makes because intuition and personal choice are so important on this healing journey.
“Reflecting on Fourteen Years of Survival”
Now, in my fourteenth year of being cancer-free, I find myself looking back on the journey with a deeper perspective. The psychological and emotional impacts of cancer are profound and vary greatly from person to person. Each woman’s experience is distinct, shaped by her own circumstances and inner strength.
“Respecting Personal Choices”
Whether you decide to share your story or keep it private, know that your choice is valid and deserves respect. Our experiences and how we navigate them are deeply personal. Trusting your intuition and making choices that feel right for you is essential on this path to healing.
“A Glimpse into the Past”
This photo was taken on September 9, 2010, during a time when I was facing stage IV breast cancer. UCLA had informed me that there was nothing more they could do, giving me only months to live and advising me to get my affairs in order. Now, in my fourteenth year of being cancer-free, I find myself reflecting more deeply on these experiences. There is so much to consider about how cancer affects us psychologically and emotionally, in ways that are unique to each of us.
My brother gave me the dog tag around my neck in this photo and it holds a special scripture which helped me through cancer: Psalm 34:4, “I sought the LORD, and he answered me; he delivered me from all my fears.”
REASON, SEASON, LIFETIME POEM: Video By Reignite Love TV (youtube.com)
Sometimes people are in your life for a reason, season, or lifetime … enjoy!