Hopefully in time you will be able to forget about it.
YOU HAVE TO CLEANSE>DETOX>REBUILD YOUR IMMUNE SYSTEM>GIVE YOURSELF
THE SPACE AND TIME TO HEAL.
Most times those that survive cancer, shortly there after learning of their experience think of themselves as invincible. Becoming a person that wants to help others, thereby, falling into the trap of neglecting themselves and NOT giving themselves time to take care of their own life. Think of a wise person who you know personally. What makes them wise in your mind? Perhaps they are knowledgeable, hospitable, charitable, self-controlled, kind, content, nurturing, financially savvy, generous, a loving teacher, mentor, example to the next generation, faithful friend, lover of God, etc.
Personally, I have always been inspired and captivated by strong, wise people, both in real life and in literature and movies. As a child and even into my teen and young adult years, I wanted to be like them a person of high intelligence, independent, imaginative, engaging, admired, strong-willed, gifted, secure – these were my heroes growing up.
But what does the Bible say makes a person wise?
Perhaps you are someone in need of a wise mentor. If in reading this article, you sense you are lacking wisdom (as we all do at times), the Bible gives very simple advice.
“If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without
finding fault, and it will be given to you” (James 1:5).
“Walk with the wise and become wise…” (Proverbs 13:20).
First, pray and ask God for wisdom. He promises to give it to those who ask!
Second, identify a wise person and intentionally spend time with them until they rub off on you. Third, read through Proverbs 31 asking God to use it to transform you. Like Solomon,
and may wisdom be our prayer!
Have you ever considered doing the opposite of your usual response to your emotions?
The opposite reaction skill is a deliberate attempt to act OPPOSITE of your emotional urge.
If your emotions are doing more harm than good, try acting opposite. Find the opposite action to our common emotion urges below. Fear: If you feel afraid, approach the stimulus that gives you anxiety. Try confronting your fear. Do things to increase your sense of control and build mastery over your fear. You can repeatedly expose yourself to what you are afraid of in order
to desensitize yourself.
Anger: If you’re mad, take a brief vacation from the situation or person that you’re angry with. This means avoiding someone who you’re frustrated with if you feel the urge to attack them. Also consider deep breathing exercises to calm down. Try to have sympathy or empathy for the other person – find the “nugget of truth” that you are able to focus on in order to feel even a small amount of sympathy.
Sadness: If you’re feeling down, approach, don’t avoid the situation you’re upset with. Similar to dealing with fear, you want to build mastery over your emotion. Don’t isolate yourself from others—get out and do something to keep yourself busy!
Shame: If the shame fits the facts—face the music. Apologize and repair the harm if you can. You need to accept the consequences of your actions and learn from them for the future. It is also important to forgive yourself and let it go. If the shame does NOT fit the facts, then you should participate fully in social interactions, and go public with your personal characteristics or behaviors.
Guilt: If your guilt fits the facts—experience the guilt. Ask, but don’t beg for forgiveness and accept the consequences. Try to repair the transgression and work to make sure it doesn’t happen again. If your guilt does NOT fit the facts, then don’t apologize or try to make up for it. Instead, change your body posture, walk tall and maintain eye contact,
with a steady and clear voice.
Bitterness: Don’t allow the sun to go down around you it only hurts you. I have experienced it and it took a lot of life out of me. Do not be quickly provoked in your spirit, Hopefully in time you will be able to forget about your anger, sadness, shame and guilt.
Remember that opposite action works best when your emotions do NOT fit the facts of a current situation. This means that your emotion, its intensity, and duration is NOT EFFECTIVE in helping you achieve your goals. Its important to throw yourself fully into the skill. Engage in opposite behaviors and use opposite emotion words, thinking, facial expression, tone of voice, and body postures!
This is a list of Rules that will help detox your life!!!
Below are 47 of the most inspirational John Assaraf quotes about success and the law of attraction that you should definitely read.
Inspirational John Assaraf Quotes
1. “Do more of what you love, less of what you tolerate and none of what you hate.”
– John Assaraf
2. “What is the best personal growth program in the world? The one you apply and stick with!” – John Assaraf
3. “The strongest factor for success is self esteem: Believing you can do it, believing you deserve it, believing you will get it.” – John Assaraf
4. “Plant your seeds. Water them. Do your part as best as you can. The universe will do its part perfectly every time, no exceptions.” – John Assaraf
5. “If you want more money in your life, give some away. If you want more love, give some to someone else. Whatever you want more of, give more of.” – John Assaraf
6. “You have to believe in yourself when nobody else does.” – John Assaraf
7. “Remember to take a break from your daily ‘do, do, do’ to just ‘be’.” – John Assaraf
8. “If you are interested you’ll do what’s convenient. If you’re committed,
you’ll do whatever it takes.” – John Assaraf
9. “Be purposeful. Be patient, and be active.” – John Assaraf
10. “Success is not a mystery. It is a science.” – John Assaraf
11. “No rules according to the universe, you provide the feelings of having it now and the universe will respond.” – John Assaraf
12. “The secret to having it all is believing you already do.” – John Assaraf
13. “Success tastes that much sweeter when you have people to share it with.” – John Assaraf
14. “We’re all connected. We just don’t see it. There isn’t an ‘out there’ and an ‘in here’. Everything in the universe is connected. It is just one energy field.” – John Assaraf
15. “Eat like you love yourself. Move like you love yourself. Speak like you love yourself. Act like you love yourself.” – John Assaraf
16. “With more money, you can take better care of yourself and leverage your passion and higher purpose in the world. Earn more, so you can give more of yourself and put your money to work for causes that make our world a better place.” – John Assaraf
17. “Wealth is a state of mind that people choose. Make the choice, then become it.” – John Assaraf
18. “If you want to earn a million bucks a year, eliminate mediocrity from your thinking and your life.” – John Assaraf
19. “Highly successful people feel the same feelings of fear, doubt, and anxiety that everyone else feels. It’s what they do about those feelings that makes them different.” – John Assaraf
20. “Are you a hoarder of more negative thoughts or positive ones? Whichever ones you hoard, grow into trees and then forests.” – John Assaraf
21. “Your mind is a powerful thing. When you fill it with positive thoughts, your life will start to change.” – John Assaraf
22. “Our thoughts are linked to this invisible energy and they determine what the energy forms.” – John Assaraf
23. “I believe that the success of a person is not measured by the amount of money they have nor the things they own. It’s measured by the way they live their life to their fullest while loving and lifting others up as they climb.” – John Assaraf
24. “The most wonderful gift one human being can give to another is in some way to make that person’s life a little bit better to live.” – John Assaraf
25. “If you do not master the art of self-discipline, you will succumb to the emotions and reality of regret.” – John Assaraf
26. “Your circumstances aren’t holding you back, your decisions are.” – John Assaraf
27. “Be very careful what you say to yourself because someone very important is listening…You.” – John Assaraf
28. “Never get so busy making a living that you forget to make a life.” – John Assaraf
29. “Deep within your mind lies a reservoir of untapped genius and power. Now is your time to release it.” – John Assaraf
30. “When you decide to leave negativity behind, many times that includes people who you once thought you needed.” – John Assaraf
31. “Don’t downgrade your dream just to fit your reality. Upgrade your conviction to match your destiny.” – John Assaraf
32. “You become what you think about most. But you also attract what you think about most.”
– John Assaraf
33. “I have a huge guarantee for you! If you don’t make a decision and change your thinking, emotions, and habits in the next 6-12 months – You will achieve the same results and be in the exact same place (or worse off) than you are 2-5 years from now. You are either in a creation mode or destruction mode – In our universe, nothing stays the same.” – John Assaraf
34. “Whatever you believe about yourself on the inside, is what will manifest on the outside.”
– John Assaraf
35. “Here’s the problem. Most people are thinking about what they don’t want, and they’re wondering why it shows up over and over again.” – John Assaraf
36. “Our job as humans is to hold on to the thoughts of what we want, make it absolutely clear in our minds what we want, and from that we start to invoke one of the greatest laws in the Universe, and that’s the law of attraction. You become what you think about most, but you also attract what you think about most.” – John Assaraf
37. “The reason you have what you have is because that is what you have decided to settle for right now. Change your mind, change your life.” – John Assaraf
38. “We can have whatever it is we choose, I don’t care how big it is. You become what you think about, but you also attract what you think about most.” – John Assaraf
39. “Anyone can stay the same. It takes courage to change.” – John Assaraf
40. “It’s easy to talk about what you’re going to do but your actions speak words.”
– John Assaraf
41. “Most people don’t understand that at a thought has a frequency – every thought has a frequency. We can measure a thought, so if you’re thinking about a thought over and over and over again, or if you’re imagining in your mind, having that brand new car, having that money that you need, building that company, finding your soul mate, if you imagine what that looks like your’re emitting that frequency on a consistent basis.” – John Assaraf
42. “If a steaming hot potato fell in your hands you would get it off you as soon as you could. Do the same with negative destructive thoughts – just release them as fast as you can.” – John Assaraf
43. “You don’t become a hero by choosing to become a hero. You become a hero by becoming an example, by being an example for what’s possible, for being an example for one person.” – John Assaraf
44. “I started studying successful people a lot of successful people and the first thing they told me you first have to believe it in here before you see it out here.” – John Assaraf
45. “What happens is when you start to believe it in here your brain starts to believe it out here in our physical world so you have to understand it is a reverse of what we have been taught. “When I see it I will believe it”.” – John Assaraf
46. “It takes courage to look like an idiot possibly and fall and fail but that’s what it takes to learn to succeed so you have to be willing to practice or rehearse to work your risk muscle.” – John Assaraf
47. “It is said that it takes 10,000 hours to develop mastery and excellence. How many hours have you clocked today on your passion?” – John Assaraf
So what is the secret of John’s success?
Attitude
Forming a positive mental attitude, thinking positively, nurturing your automatic positive thought and diminishing your automatic negative thought.
Focus
Concentrated thought increases the amplitude of our positive thought and vibration making
it more likely that we will bring what we desire into our lives.
Persistence
Persistence is the fuel to success, to continue to your goal no matter what.
Action
Do what you need to do, take little action and get little results, take massive action
and get massive results.
John Assaraf attributes success to the power of the subconscious mind and he accesses and controls his subconscious thought through concentrated visualization.
One of the stories he shares with us in the film The Secret is the power of the vision-board.
John has used vision-boards as a visualization tool for many years and in 1997, during a series of house moves, he put many of his personal belongings, including his vision[boards into storage.
Whose to Say???
As one of the world’s most famous self-help books around.
The Secret was bound to be made into a feature film. This exciting idea has now become a reality… The Secret movie will begin shooting late 2018 and will be released 2019. Starring actress Katie Holmes and based on key teachings in the best-selling book by Rhonda Byrne,
The Secret movie is likely to be a huge hit. Not only that, but it will help to spread the truth about how you can manifest exactly what you want from your life. This is, unfortunately, a message many sorely need to hear. We have the latest details below!
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Rhonda Byrne, after a series of painful experiences in her life, learns a great Secret.
Once she knows it, she is amazed to discover through her research how many famous figures throughout history knew it, and how many persons living today know it and preach it. She gathers these modern-day advocates for her documentary. What is the Secret? It’s the Law of Attraction. What we have our in our lives, we have attracted into it. Byrne’s various guests with their various labels – doctor, author, philosopher, psychologist, entrepreneur, visionary, metaphysician, quantum physicist, financial strategist, feng shui consultant – all expound upon what the
Law of Attraction is and how to attract good things into our lives, while avoiding the bad.
“Your wish,” says the Universe, “is my command.”
* This is NOT The Secret by Rhonda Byrne.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e9aBgKHfE1o
They must change the title as this is confusing to people.
** Below is the Actual Secret by Rhonda Byrne
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iMMEUQrA-28